1 00:00:57,490 --> 00:00:59,892 Man, they really put talent in talent show. 2 00:00:59,926 --> 00:01:01,693 Let's give it up for "Dogs are Brown." 3 00:01:01,727 --> 00:01:03,629 [applause] 4 00:01:05,730 --> 00:01:07,465 So, it's been a while since our last act 5 00:01:07,498 --> 00:01:08,766 has graced this stage. 6 00:01:08,799 --> 00:01:10,967 However, he is now having... 7 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:14,837 [Boy] Hey, Tim. 8 00:01:14,870 --> 00:01:16,972 Tim. 9 00:01:17,005 --> 00:01:18,673 [woman's voice] Tim. 10 00:01:18,706 --> 00:01:20,508 Tim, did you hear what I said? 11 00:01:25,712 --> 00:01:26,980 [projector clicks] 12 00:01:31,616 --> 00:01:34,285 [no audio] 13 00:03:22,869 --> 00:03:25,004 [indistinct noise] 14 00:03:25,038 --> 00:03:27,706 [Woman] Sweetie, did you hear what I said? 15 00:03:27,740 --> 00:03:30,508 Tim, we're here. [boy] Come on, Buddy. 16 00:03:30,542 --> 00:03:32,377 Break a leg. You're gonna be great. 17 00:03:32,410 --> 00:03:33,678 [woman] Are you okay, Sweetie? 18 00:03:33,711 --> 00:03:35,847 Tim, you're not feeling good? 19 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:38,148 [Tim] I just can't do it. Tim, you okay? 20 00:03:38,181 --> 00:03:39,883 I think you just have a little stage fright. 21 00:03:39,916 --> 00:03:41,717 That's all.It's not that. 22 00:03:41,751 --> 00:03:43,452 Hey, it happens sometimes. 23 00:03:43,485 --> 00:03:44,920 Just picture everyone in the audience 24 00:03:44,954 --> 00:03:46,721 in their underwear.Yeah. 25 00:03:46,755 --> 00:03:49,123 Please don't make me do it.Come on, buddy. 26 00:03:49,157 --> 00:03:50,658 Got a lot of people counting on you. 27 00:03:50,691 --> 00:03:52,092 You don't want to be a quitter. 28 00:03:52,125 --> 00:03:54,094 Just can't do it. Take me home. 29 00:03:54,127 --> 00:03:55,795 Oh, honey.I want to go home. 30 00:03:55,828 --> 00:03:57,563 This is ridiculous. Come on. 31 00:03:57,596 --> 00:03:59,465 Honey, listen, we just need to get him inside, okay? 32 00:03:59,498 --> 00:04:00,799 He's already late. 33 00:04:00,832 --> 00:04:03,168 Hey, I've got a great idea. 34 00:04:03,201 --> 00:04:06,070 How about we all go out for ice-cream after the show? 35 00:04:06,103 --> 00:04:07,704 [gasps] You like that? 36 00:04:07,737 --> 00:04:08,838 You know what? 37 00:04:08,872 --> 00:04:10,907 I don't remember your favorite flavor. 38 00:04:10,940 --> 00:04:13,442 What is it?Oreo Cookie's my favorite. 39 00:04:13,476 --> 00:04:16,111 Well, then, Oreo Cookie ice-cream it is then. 40 00:04:16,144 --> 00:04:18,646 But listen, all you have to do, honey, 41 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:20,447 is get out of the car, okay? 42 00:04:20,481 --> 00:04:23,649 Here we go. Come on. 43 00:04:23,684 --> 00:04:25,785 Come on, buddy. Let's go. 44 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:30,489 [audience laughs] 45 00:04:32,857 --> 00:04:35,593 [boy actor] Wendy, your mother was telling 46 00:04:35,626 --> 00:04:37,627 such a lovely story. 47 00:04:37,660 --> 00:04:39,896 [Wendy] Oh, which one was it? 48 00:04:39,929 --> 00:04:41,864 It was about the prince, 49 00:04:41,898 --> 00:04:44,900 and he couldn't find the lady who wore the glass slipper. 50 00:04:44,933 --> 00:04:46,601 Oh, that's Cinderella, silly. 51 00:04:46,634 --> 00:04:48,202 [laughing] 52 00:04:48,236 --> 00:04:50,104 He found it and they lived happily ever after. 53 00:04:50,137 --> 00:04:51,638 Are you ready? 54 00:04:51,671 --> 00:04:52,972 [man] Tim, be ready for your cue. 55 00:04:53,006 --> 00:04:55,174 [girl actor] Where are you going? 56 00:04:55,208 --> 00:04:56,742 [boy actor] To tell you the other boys. 57 00:04:56,775 --> 00:04:59,044 [children cheer] 58 00:04:59,077 --> 00:05:01,513 Greeting, boys. I have a surprise for you. 59 00:05:01,546 --> 00:05:03,447 Tim, go. That's your cue. 60 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,149 They need you. Come on. 61 00:05:05,182 --> 00:05:07,583 Tim, you need to be on the stage right now. 62 00:05:07,617 --> 00:05:09,485 Tim.Go on, Tim. 63 00:05:12,721 --> 00:05:13,822 He missed his cue. 64 00:05:13,855 --> 00:05:15,657 Where is he? Tim. 65 00:05:15,690 --> 00:05:18,092 [panting] 66 00:05:18,126 --> 00:05:20,193 Where is he going? Honey, come on. 67 00:05:20,227 --> 00:05:21,995 I don't know. Let's go find out. 68 00:05:22,029 --> 00:05:23,730 What's going on?Just a minute. 69 00:05:23,763 --> 00:05:25,064 Where you guys going? 70 00:05:25,097 --> 00:05:26,165 Watch out for your little brother. 71 00:05:26,198 --> 00:05:27,666 We'll be right back. 72 00:05:32,169 --> 00:05:33,838 [all] Yay! 73 00:05:33,871 --> 00:05:36,840 Tim, come back! 74 00:05:36,873 --> 00:05:38,207 Where are you going? 75 00:05:41,744 --> 00:05:42,778 Tim! 76 00:05:45,813 --> 00:05:46,914 Tim. 77 00:05:51,017 --> 00:05:52,152 [crying] 78 00:05:52,185 --> 00:05:53,486 [jiggles doorknob] 79 00:05:53,519 --> 00:05:55,621 Come on, Tim. What's wrong? 80 00:05:55,655 --> 00:05:58,523 Go away. 81 00:05:58,557 --> 00:05:59,491 Please talk to me. 82 00:05:59,524 --> 00:06:01,825 Go away. Come on. 83 00:06:01,859 --> 00:06:03,527 [crying] 84 00:06:03,561 --> 00:06:05,628 I've never seen you like this before. 85 00:06:07,264 --> 00:06:08,665 Tim. 86 00:06:10,199 --> 00:06:11,767 [mother] Charlie, I'll go in. 87 00:06:15,170 --> 00:06:18,138 Oh, sweetheart, what happened? 88 00:06:18,172 --> 00:06:19,873 Are you okay? 89 00:06:19,906 --> 00:06:21,741 Honey. Shh. 90 00:06:21,775 --> 00:06:23,142 It's okay. 91 00:06:23,176 --> 00:06:24,877 It's okay. 92 00:06:27,312 --> 00:06:31,515 [woman] I understand what you guys have been going through. 93 00:06:31,548 --> 00:06:33,050 So, Tim, 94 00:06:33,084 --> 00:06:35,686 you're ten years-old, right? 95 00:06:35,719 --> 00:06:36,887 Ten and three-quarters. 96 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:38,854 Oh, ho-ho, wow. 97 00:06:38,888 --> 00:06:40,189 Well, you are not a kid anymore. 98 00:06:40,222 --> 00:06:42,791 I'm gonna have to talk to you like a grown-up. 99 00:06:42,824 --> 00:06:44,659 What'd you say?Sure. 100 00:06:44,693 --> 00:06:46,827 Do you have any idea why Mommy brought you here 101 00:06:46,860 --> 00:06:47,828 to talk to me today? 102 00:06:51,064 --> 00:06:52,699 I... 103 00:06:52,732 --> 00:06:55,034 I guess it's because 104 00:06:55,067 --> 00:06:58,703 sometimes I don't act great. 105 00:06:58,736 --> 00:07:01,539 I just can't help it. 106 00:07:01,572 --> 00:07:03,307 What do you mean?Well, 107 00:07:03,340 --> 00:07:07,576 sometimes I get kind of worried. 108 00:07:08,877 --> 00:07:10,613 Okay. 109 00:07:10,646 --> 00:07:12,547 Well, I'm a doctor, 110 00:07:12,580 --> 00:07:15,016 and it's my job to help you 111 00:07:15,049 --> 00:07:16,783 understand those worried feelings 112 00:07:16,817 --> 00:07:18,285 a little bit better. 113 00:07:18,319 --> 00:07:21,921 So you're like a feelings doctor? 114 00:07:21,954 --> 00:07:22,988 Sort of. 115 00:07:23,022 --> 00:07:24,924 Kind of like a feelings doctor. 116 00:07:24,957 --> 00:07:26,591 Tim, do you know what the word "anxiety" means? 117 00:07:26,625 --> 00:07:27,926 Do you have any idea what it means? 118 00:07:27,959 --> 00:07:29,861 Not really. 119 00:07:29,894 --> 00:07:32,563 Well, people feel anxiety 120 00:07:32,596 --> 00:07:37,600 when they have lots of worry in their brains 121 00:07:37,634 --> 00:07:40,969 and it makes them feel bad inside. 122 00:07:41,002 --> 00:07:44,004 You know what I call those kind of bad thoughts? 123 00:07:44,038 --> 00:07:45,906 Junk thoughts. 124 00:07:45,940 --> 00:07:48,608 Like junk food?Mm-hmm. 125 00:07:48,642 --> 00:07:50,176 Kind of like junk food. 126 00:07:50,209 --> 00:07:53,246 Kind of like when you feel really bad inside 127 00:07:53,279 --> 00:07:57,715 like after you have eaten too much junk food. 128 00:07:57,749 --> 00:08:00,017 And it's my job to help you understand 129 00:08:00,051 --> 00:08:03,720 and get rid of those junk thoughts. 130 00:08:03,754 --> 00:08:05,688 Okay? 131 00:08:05,721 --> 00:08:07,056 Think of your junk thoughts 132 00:08:07,089 --> 00:08:08,924 like books. 133 00:08:08,958 --> 00:08:12,160 If you give into a bully, what usually happens? 134 00:08:12,193 --> 00:08:13,727 [Tim] They just keep bullying you. 135 00:08:13,761 --> 00:08:15,196 [doctor] Exactly. 136 00:08:15,229 --> 00:08:17,297 Junk thoughts are the same way. 137 00:08:17,330 --> 00:08:19,066 You have to stand up to them and tell them 138 00:08:19,099 --> 00:08:20,567 you're not afraid. 139 00:08:22,001 --> 00:08:24,136 [women laughing] 140 00:08:24,170 --> 00:08:26,371 [woman] But I heard Miss Garret's not so nice with boys. 141 00:08:26,404 --> 00:08:28,073 Brad hates her.Really? 142 00:08:28,106 --> 00:08:29,974 I didn't know Brad had a hard time with her. 143 00:08:30,007 --> 00:08:32,642 Oh, she just has a hard time with boys with a little spunk. 144 00:08:32,676 --> 00:08:35,044 That's all.Well, Tim's afraid of her. 145 00:08:35,078 --> 00:08:36,112 I don't know. 146 00:08:36,145 --> 00:08:38,080 She makes him really anxious. 147 00:08:38,113 --> 00:08:40,115 Your kids feel that way? 148 00:08:40,148 --> 00:08:41,849 I have to ask Charlie. I don't know. 149 00:08:41,883 --> 00:08:43,050 It goes right over Brad's head. 150 00:08:43,084 --> 00:08:44,385 Really? Yeah. 151 00:08:44,418 --> 00:08:46,187 Well, I don't know, 152 00:08:46,220 --> 00:08:48,054 sometimes getting Tim to school seems-- 153 00:08:48,088 --> 00:08:49,322 Aaron is such a space. 154 00:08:49,355 --> 00:08:50,756 It takes him forever to get dressed. 155 00:08:50,790 --> 00:08:51,891 It drives me crazy. 156 00:08:51,924 --> 00:08:53,758 Charlie is ready before I am. 157 00:08:53,792 --> 00:08:55,126 He, like, rushes me out the door. 158 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:57,128 Well, Jenny must change her clothes ten times 159 00:08:57,161 --> 00:08:58,662 before walking out the door. 160 00:08:58,696 --> 00:09:01,665 Okay, girl versus boy.I can see that. 161 00:09:01,699 --> 00:09:03,000 Well, Tim hates school now. 162 00:09:03,033 --> 00:09:04,867 It's just-- he is so adamant not to go. 163 00:09:04,901 --> 00:09:07,736 Oh, all kids hate school sometimes. 164 00:09:07,769 --> 00:09:10,071 Emma loves it.Of course she does. 165 00:09:10,105 --> 00:09:12,940 But maybe you should put him back in the performing arts. 166 00:09:12,973 --> 00:09:14,642 You know, he was doing that for a while. 167 00:09:14,675 --> 00:09:15,809 Yeah.He really liked that. 168 00:09:15,843 --> 00:09:17,043 He should go back to dance class. 169 00:09:17,076 --> 00:09:19,412 He's so talented.You know, we've tried. 170 00:09:19,445 --> 00:09:21,780 He just refuses to go. I think it's a phase, maybe. 171 00:09:21,814 --> 00:09:23,315 Really, Catherine, I mean, 172 00:09:23,348 --> 00:09:25,050 I know he was embarrassed about what happened at the play, 173 00:09:25,083 --> 00:09:27,151 but the kids have forgotten all about it. 174 00:09:27,184 --> 00:09:29,720 Yeah, you need to just teach him to get right back on that horse. 175 00:09:29,753 --> 00:09:31,254 The show must go on.Yeah. 176 00:09:31,287 --> 00:09:33,423 Well, um, what about that youth theatre in town, 177 00:09:33,456 --> 00:09:35,425 The Irvington Players?Oh, yeah. 178 00:09:35,458 --> 00:09:37,126 You know, I've tried that, actually. 179 00:09:37,159 --> 00:09:38,960 I can't even get him in the car to get there. 180 00:09:38,993 --> 00:09:40,328 I don't know. 181 00:09:40,361 --> 00:09:41,830 You should just drag his butt in the car. 182 00:09:41,863 --> 00:09:43,164 Just tell him you're going, put him in the car. 183 00:09:43,197 --> 00:09:46,033 He's too young to know what he wants. 184 00:09:46,066 --> 00:09:47,367 Bribe him with ice-cream. 185 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:49,235 Yeah, bribe him with ice-cream. 186 00:09:49,268 --> 00:09:51,437 With ice-cream-- don't tell him where you're going. 187 00:09:51,470 --> 00:09:54,105 How about I bribe me with ice-cream? Right? 188 00:09:54,139 --> 00:09:56,007 You know what, though, ladies, 189 00:09:56,041 --> 00:09:58,108 I have to tell you, nothing works. 190 00:09:58,142 --> 00:09:59,243 I've tried. 191 00:09:59,276 --> 00:10:02,178 It's just, it's been tough. 192 00:10:02,211 --> 00:10:04,013 Well, I think he's just being 193 00:10:04,047 --> 00:10:05,348 manipulative and stubborn. 194 00:10:05,381 --> 00:10:06,882 [laughs] 195 00:10:06,915 --> 00:10:08,216 Um, 196 00:10:08,250 --> 00:10:09,884 Timmy doesn't have a manipulative bone 197 00:10:09,917 --> 00:10:11,419 in his body. 198 00:10:11,453 --> 00:10:13,387 He is one of the sweetest boys I've ever met 199 00:10:13,420 --> 00:10:15,088 in my entire life.Thanks, Lisa. 200 00:10:15,121 --> 00:10:16,823 Listen, does anyone want some coffee? 201 00:10:16,857 --> 00:10:18,858 I do.Let me help you. 202 00:10:21,260 --> 00:10:22,727 That was rude. 203 00:10:22,761 --> 00:10:24,896 Typical Suzanne. 204 00:10:24,929 --> 00:10:26,931 You know I'm always here, right? 205 00:10:26,965 --> 00:10:29,933 I do. Thank you. 206 00:10:29,967 --> 00:10:32,202 Do you have to go back in there? 207 00:10:32,235 --> 00:10:33,870 Unfortunately. 208 00:10:33,903 --> 00:10:35,804 Do you have whisky? 209 00:10:35,837 --> 00:10:36,972 Absolutely. 210 00:10:39,941 --> 00:10:41,909 [Tim] Everybody at school hates me. 211 00:10:41,942 --> 00:10:44,078 [doctor] Why do you think that, Tim? 212 00:10:44,111 --> 00:10:46,012 [Tim] I can tell by how they look at me. 213 00:10:46,045 --> 00:10:47,346 Well, people look at other people 214 00:10:47,380 --> 00:10:49,215 for no reason sometimes. 215 00:10:51,784 --> 00:10:54,186 You're looking at me, right now. Does that mean you hate me? 216 00:10:55,787 --> 00:10:56,988 No, you're okay. 217 00:10:58,322 --> 00:11:00,456 So learning to take deep breaths... 218 00:11:04,494 --> 00:11:06,861 will teach your body to relax. 219 00:11:10,131 --> 00:11:12,933 And when your body is relaxed, 220 00:11:12,966 --> 00:11:14,968 it's hard to feel anxious. 221 00:11:15,002 --> 00:11:16,469 [school bell rings] 222 00:11:16,503 --> 00:11:17,904 [male teacher] All right. 223 00:11:17,937 --> 00:11:19,238 Everybody ready for their quiz? 224 00:11:19,271 --> 00:11:21,039 Your number two pencils? 225 00:11:25,476 --> 00:11:28,445 [doctor] Take a deep breath in through your nose, 226 00:11:28,478 --> 00:11:30,480 and feel the air. 227 00:11:30,514 --> 00:11:33,316 Now very slowly let the air out 228 00:11:33,349 --> 00:11:34,817 through your mouth. 229 00:11:38,186 --> 00:11:40,021 Okay, let's do it again. 230 00:11:40,054 --> 00:11:43,089 Take a deep breath in. 231 00:11:48,193 --> 00:11:51,163 Hi. How'd you do on the quiz? 232 00:11:51,196 --> 00:11:53,865 Not good. I couldn't concentrate. 233 00:11:53,898 --> 00:11:55,533 I didn't get it either. 234 00:11:55,566 --> 00:11:57,067 Hey, wanna have a sleepover tomorrow 235 00:11:57,100 --> 00:11:58,936 after the soccer game? 236 00:11:58,969 --> 00:12:00,237 Sure. 237 00:12:00,270 --> 00:12:02,304 I'll see ya then.See ya. 238 00:12:06,875 --> 00:12:09,009 I have some news for you. 239 00:12:09,044 --> 00:12:10,144 What, baby? 240 00:12:13,347 --> 00:12:15,515 You can fight me.[chuckles] 241 00:12:15,549 --> 00:12:17,016 But just don't scream. 242 00:12:17,050 --> 00:12:18,351 No, God. 243 00:12:18,384 --> 00:12:20,085 There'll be no more reading. 244 00:12:20,118 --> 00:12:22,087 No-- what... [laughs] 245 00:12:24,088 --> 00:12:25,522 Oh. Mm. 246 00:12:25,556 --> 00:12:26,990 Want some sugar? 247 00:12:29,059 --> 00:12:30,526 I "vant" to suck your blood. 248 00:12:30,560 --> 00:12:32,895 [phone rings] 249 00:12:32,928 --> 00:12:35,064 Oh, I'd better answer the phone, baby. 250 00:12:35,097 --> 00:12:37,231 Oh, God. No. I've got-- honey, 251 00:12:37,265 --> 00:12:38,933 I gotta get the phone.No, no, you don't. 252 00:12:38,967 --> 00:12:41,001 Yes, I-- you just stop it. 253 00:12:41,034 --> 00:12:42,269 Stop it. Okay, give me the phone. 254 00:12:42,302 --> 00:12:44,971 Wait, where is it? Okay. 255 00:12:45,004 --> 00:12:47,273 Hello. Oh, hey. 256 00:12:47,306 --> 00:12:49,275 Henry. Hi, Lisa, hey. 257 00:12:49,308 --> 00:12:53,044 What's wrong, hon?Go away, Lisa. 258 00:12:53,078 --> 00:12:55,545 Why, is he sick? 259 00:12:55,580 --> 00:12:57,547 Really? That is so strange. 260 00:12:57,581 --> 00:12:59,048 Okay, will you put him on the phone? 261 00:12:59,082 --> 00:13:00,416 I'll try to talk to him. 262 00:13:00,449 --> 00:13:02,951 Henry, stop it. 263 00:13:02,985 --> 00:13:04,953 Hey, Tim. Baby, what's the matter? 264 00:13:04,987 --> 00:13:07,555 Why do you want to come home? 265 00:13:07,589 --> 00:13:10,057 Well, you love sleeping at Charlie's. 266 00:13:10,091 --> 00:13:11,024 Stop it. 267 00:13:11,057 --> 00:13:12,526 Are you sure? 268 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:14,227 Well, uh, remember? 269 00:13:14,260 --> 00:13:16,496 Lisa was gonna make waffles in the morning. 270 00:13:16,529 --> 00:13:19,164 Your favorite. 271 00:13:19,198 --> 00:13:21,332 No, no, no, don't cry. Stop it. 272 00:13:21,365 --> 00:13:23,301 Yeah, remember your breathing exercises, baby? 273 00:13:23,334 --> 00:13:26,604 That's right. Like Dr. Slater taught you. 274 00:13:26,637 --> 00:13:29,239 Okay, honey. Shh, shh, shh, no, no, no. 275 00:13:29,272 --> 00:13:30,339 Okay, Daddy's gonna come get you. 276 00:13:32,441 --> 00:13:33,942 Okay. 277 00:13:33,975 --> 00:13:36,444 I love you, honey. 278 00:13:36,477 --> 00:13:37,978 Honey, what was all that about, 279 00:13:38,012 --> 00:13:40,047 "Daddy's gonna come get you"? 280 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:42,882 He wants to come home.From Charlie's? 281 00:13:42,916 --> 00:13:45,251 I know. It's so strange. 282 00:13:45,284 --> 00:13:46,419 Come on. He can wait. 283 00:13:46,452 --> 00:13:47,520 [sighs] 284 00:13:47,553 --> 00:13:49,487 Oh, Henry, please be serious, okay? 285 00:13:49,521 --> 00:13:51,856 Look over there.No, he's really upset. 286 00:13:51,889 --> 00:13:55,226 Okay, he's really upset. Please go get him, okay? 287 00:13:55,259 --> 00:13:56,827 Okay, fine. 288 00:13:58,361 --> 00:14:00,029 You know, Tim doesn't seem to be 289 00:14:00,062 --> 00:14:03,498 doing any better even with all this therapy. 290 00:14:03,532 --> 00:14:06,434 I have a feeling something else is going on. 291 00:14:06,467 --> 00:14:07,969 Really? 292 00:14:08,002 --> 00:14:09,303 One anxiety disorder isn't enough for you? 293 00:14:09,337 --> 00:14:11,004 What did you say? 294 00:14:11,038 --> 00:14:12,405 You know, he needs to stick things out sometimes. 295 00:14:12,439 --> 00:14:13,606 I don't feel like picking him up. 296 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:16,142 You know what, that's not fair to Lisa. 297 00:14:16,175 --> 00:14:18,544 And besides, I don't think that being tougher is the answer. 298 00:14:18,577 --> 00:14:20,545 Obviously.What? 299 00:14:20,578 --> 00:14:22,447 All I'm saying is that I agree with you. 300 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:24,314 I don't think all this expensive therapy 301 00:14:24,348 --> 00:14:26,150 is paying off, 302 00:14:26,183 --> 00:14:28,317 because I think he thinks he can get away with it. 303 00:14:28,351 --> 00:14:30,153 And he knows it. 304 00:14:30,186 --> 00:14:33,188 You know what? I've grounded him, Henry. 305 00:14:33,221 --> 00:14:35,523 I've taken away his favorite things and I've bribed him, 306 00:14:35,557 --> 00:14:38,659 and I've used the stupid sticker charts! 307 00:14:38,692 --> 00:14:41,094 You're never home, Henry. You don't see how hard I try. 308 00:14:41,127 --> 00:14:42,228 And I'm exhausted. 309 00:14:43,496 --> 00:14:45,330 And you know what, 310 00:14:45,364 --> 00:14:47,599 if I'm such a terrible mother, then how come Kyle and Jessie 311 00:14:47,632 --> 00:14:49,568 don't act this way, too, huh? 312 00:14:49,601 --> 00:14:50,501 Jeez. 313 00:14:52,103 --> 00:14:53,237 I've got a great idea. 314 00:14:53,271 --> 00:14:54,572 Why don't you stay home? 315 00:14:54,605 --> 00:14:56,273 See if you can do any better. 316 00:14:56,306 --> 00:14:58,207 Fine. I don't mind doing that. 317 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:00,076 You ready to go back to work? 318 00:15:00,109 --> 00:15:01,577 Pay all the bills? 319 00:15:01,610 --> 00:15:04,112 And the lifestyle around here? 320 00:15:04,145 --> 00:15:06,181 You wanna play that card? 321 00:15:11,418 --> 00:15:13,519 [school bell rings] 322 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:16,989 You're gonna have a good day, honey. 323 00:15:17,022 --> 00:15:19,424 You can play with your friends. 324 00:15:19,457 --> 00:15:21,492 Charlie will be there. 325 00:15:21,525 --> 00:15:23,027 Right? 326 00:15:23,060 --> 00:15:25,529 You wanna see Charlie? 327 00:15:25,562 --> 00:15:27,097 Good morning, Timothy. 328 00:15:27,130 --> 00:15:29,164 Thank you so much for meeting us here. 329 00:15:29,198 --> 00:15:31,233 Rough morning again today, Tim? 330 00:15:33,368 --> 00:15:36,370 It took me an hour just to get him in the car. 331 00:15:36,404 --> 00:15:37,971 Tim, why don't you head to my office 332 00:15:38,005 --> 00:15:40,540 and we can chat a bit before you go to class. Okay? 333 00:15:42,141 --> 00:15:44,110 I don't feel good. My head hurts. 334 00:15:44,143 --> 00:15:46,111 Oh, I'm sorry to hear that. 335 00:15:46,144 --> 00:15:47,513 Well, if you don't start feeling better, 336 00:15:47,546 --> 00:15:49,147 we can go to the nurse's office, 337 00:15:49,180 --> 00:15:51,348 but I think once you get to class, you'll be fine. 338 00:15:51,381 --> 00:15:52,717 Yeah. 339 00:15:52,750 --> 00:15:54,718 It's pizza day. You don't want to miss that. 340 00:15:54,751 --> 00:15:56,385 Oh, pizza day. 341 00:15:56,419 --> 00:15:59,255 No, yeah? That sounds like fun. 342 00:15:59,288 --> 00:16:01,289 Come on, buddy.Come on, honey. 343 00:16:01,323 --> 00:16:02,424 Have a good day, sweetie. 344 00:16:02,457 --> 00:16:03,558 Okay.Okay? 345 00:16:04,626 --> 00:16:06,160 I love you. 346 00:16:06,193 --> 00:16:07,661 That's a good man.That's my good boy. 347 00:16:07,694 --> 00:16:10,063 You know, Catherine, he's fine once he's here. 348 00:16:10,096 --> 00:16:13,032 Sometimes kids pick up on their parents anxiety. 349 00:16:13,065 --> 00:16:15,634 Maybe you should consider talking to someone. 350 00:16:17,769 --> 00:16:19,170 Come on, buddy. 351 00:16:25,142 --> 00:16:27,443 Hi, Catherine.Hey, Suzanne. 352 00:16:27,476 --> 00:16:30,279 How are you?Oh, my God. 353 00:16:30,312 --> 00:16:32,280 Michael's just so busy these days 354 00:16:32,313 --> 00:16:35,182 with all his extracurricular activities. 355 00:16:35,215 --> 00:16:37,217 It's just so stressful. 356 00:16:37,251 --> 00:16:39,286 This morning he completely forgot his lunch, 357 00:16:39,319 --> 00:16:40,419 poor thing, 358 00:16:40,453 --> 00:16:43,021 and he hates the school food. 359 00:16:43,055 --> 00:16:45,457 So I just made him some homemade chicken noodle soup. 360 00:16:46,791 --> 00:16:48,360 Catherine, call me. 361 00:16:48,393 --> 00:16:50,761 We really need to get together. 362 00:16:50,794 --> 00:16:52,196 Bye. 363 00:16:59,468 --> 00:17:02,236 I'm fine. Thanks for asking. 364 00:17:05,038 --> 00:17:07,474 Let's play another game, shall we? 365 00:17:07,507 --> 00:17:08,708 Okay. 366 00:17:08,741 --> 00:17:11,343 We'll call this one the distraction game. 367 00:17:11,377 --> 00:17:14,246 It's gonna help you get rid of all those junk thoughts. 368 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:16,581 You ready to play?Sure. I love games. 369 00:17:16,614 --> 00:17:18,083 Okay. 370 00:17:18,116 --> 00:17:21,085 So you have to pick a category. 371 00:17:21,118 --> 00:17:23,620 It can be boys names, 372 00:17:23,653 --> 00:17:25,154 capital cities... 373 00:17:25,188 --> 00:17:27,323 whatever you like. 374 00:17:27,356 --> 00:17:28,491 How about food? 375 00:17:28,524 --> 00:17:29,725 Okay. Food works. 376 00:17:29,758 --> 00:17:30,758 That's good. 377 00:17:30,792 --> 00:17:33,160 As long as it's alphabetical. 378 00:17:33,194 --> 00:17:35,296 Like apples, 379 00:17:35,329 --> 00:17:38,331 bananas, cherries, and so on. 380 00:17:38,364 --> 00:17:39,665 You get it? 381 00:17:39,699 --> 00:17:42,034 Yes, but I hate fruit. 382 00:17:42,067 --> 00:17:43,368 Can't we do candy instead? 383 00:17:43,402 --> 00:17:46,237 Yeah, honey, you can do anything you like, 384 00:17:46,270 --> 00:17:48,406 as long as you make it alphabetical. 385 00:17:48,439 --> 00:17:50,140 Okay? All right. 386 00:17:50,173 --> 00:17:51,474 Shall we try it?Sure. 387 00:17:51,508 --> 00:17:53,243 Okay. You start. 388 00:17:56,245 --> 00:17:58,147 David. 389 00:17:58,180 --> 00:17:59,080 Eddie. 390 00:18:00,215 --> 00:18:02,517 Frank. 391 00:18:02,550 --> 00:18:03,551 George. 392 00:18:05,785 --> 00:18:07,487 Henry. 393 00:18:07,521 --> 00:18:10,523 Igloo.Igloo? 394 00:18:10,556 --> 00:18:12,391 What kind of place name is that? 395 00:18:12,425 --> 00:18:13,726 A very cold one. 396 00:18:13,759 --> 00:18:15,193 [shivering] 397 00:18:15,227 --> 00:18:17,128 You're such a doofus.[giggling] 398 00:18:19,863 --> 00:18:21,365 All right, Kyle, come on, buddy. 399 00:18:21,398 --> 00:18:23,233 Crossing pass. You gonna hit it in? 400 00:18:23,266 --> 00:18:24,800 You ready?Here we go. 401 00:18:24,834 --> 00:18:26,235 [Kyle] There you go. Uh! 402 00:18:26,268 --> 00:18:28,237 Oh, dude, ten in a row! 403 00:18:28,270 --> 00:18:31,806 Wow! When you put your mind to something, you are awesome! 404 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:33,374 Good job!Guys, dinner's almost ready. 405 00:18:33,407 --> 00:18:34,575 Come on in and wash up. 406 00:18:34,608 --> 00:18:35,776 Let's go. Let's go. 407 00:18:35,809 --> 00:18:37,310 No! I need to keep practicing. 408 00:18:37,344 --> 00:18:39,145 I don't wanna go.Oh, no. 409 00:18:39,178 --> 00:18:41,080 I am worn out and I'm hungry now. 410 00:18:41,113 --> 00:18:43,482 Let's go. No, please stay out with me. 411 00:18:43,515 --> 00:18:45,283 I need more practice. Look, buddy. 412 00:18:45,316 --> 00:18:48,553 You are an amazing goalie, all right, but I'm starving. 413 00:18:48,586 --> 00:18:50,554 Come on, let's go.You're such a jerk! 414 00:18:50,587 --> 00:18:52,422 Whoa!You never do anything I want! 415 00:18:52,456 --> 00:18:54,623 Why won't you stay out with me? 416 00:18:54,657 --> 00:18:57,259 Dad, make Kyle help me. 417 00:18:57,292 --> 00:18:59,261 Tim, your brother's been playing with you all day. 418 00:18:59,294 --> 00:19:00,562 Now, come on, it's getting dark, 419 00:19:00,595 --> 00:19:02,329 and Mom made a great dinner. 420 00:19:02,363 --> 00:19:05,666 I'm not going in! I don't care what you say! 421 00:19:05,699 --> 00:19:07,733 It's not fair! I hate you all! 422 00:19:07,767 --> 00:19:10,369 I hate you.Hey, Tim! 423 00:19:10,402 --> 00:19:12,104 That's enough! 424 00:19:12,137 --> 00:19:13,405 I'll play with you, Timmy. 425 00:19:13,438 --> 00:19:14,673 You don't even know how to play soccer! 426 00:19:14,706 --> 00:19:15,874 Get away from me, 427 00:19:15,907 --> 00:19:17,408 you little brat.[Dad] Tim! Hey! 428 00:19:17,441 --> 00:19:18,442 Whoa! Come on, let's go, buddy. 429 00:19:18,476 --> 00:19:19,677 Inside now! 430 00:19:19,710 --> 00:19:21,811 Why are all you guys leaving me? 431 00:19:21,844 --> 00:19:23,379 I'm running away. 432 00:19:23,413 --> 00:19:25,514 I hate you! 433 00:19:25,547 --> 00:19:27,749 Hey! Tim! 434 00:19:27,783 --> 00:19:30,551 Get back here right now and apologize to your brother! 435 00:19:31,719 --> 00:19:34,488 [crying]Shh, shh. 436 00:19:35,789 --> 00:19:37,824 It's okay. 437 00:19:37,857 --> 00:19:39,192 It's okay. 438 00:19:40,726 --> 00:19:42,127 I didn't mean it. 439 00:19:44,162 --> 00:19:45,563 It's gonna be okay. 440 00:19:51,767 --> 00:19:54,403 Tim, honey, come on. 441 00:19:54,437 --> 00:19:55,470 Tim. 442 00:20:00,408 --> 00:20:01,642 Timothy! 443 00:20:01,675 --> 00:20:03,343 Go away. 444 00:20:03,376 --> 00:20:06,379 Okay. You know what? 445 00:20:06,413 --> 00:20:07,914 You're almost 11 now. 446 00:20:07,947 --> 00:20:10,249 You're too old for this! 447 00:20:10,282 --> 00:20:12,584 How much longer are we gonna do this, huh? 448 00:20:12,618 --> 00:20:15,486 You already missed 36 days of school! 449 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:18,155 Listen, I need to get you dressed, okay? 450 00:20:20,624 --> 00:20:21,691 [sighs] 451 00:20:29,697 --> 00:20:31,265 Where's Tim? 452 00:20:31,298 --> 00:20:32,466 He won't get out of bed. 453 00:20:34,601 --> 00:20:36,602 Kyle, honey, you're gonna miss the bus. 454 00:20:39,672 --> 00:20:41,540 Kyle, you're gonna miss the bus! 455 00:20:41,573 --> 00:20:43,542 All right. Okay. 456 00:20:45,376 --> 00:20:47,310 Have a good day. 457 00:20:47,344 --> 00:20:49,246 Listen, I have to get Jessie to school. 458 00:20:49,279 --> 00:20:50,913 Okay, can you please give it a try? 459 00:20:50,947 --> 00:20:53,615 I don't know, Henry, maybe he'll listen to you. 460 00:20:53,649 --> 00:20:54,883 Let's go, Jessie. 461 00:20:54,916 --> 00:20:55,851 Okay. 462 00:21:03,890 --> 00:21:05,859 I give up. 463 00:21:05,892 --> 00:21:08,627 That kid is impossible. 464 00:21:08,661 --> 00:21:11,663 I told him that if he-- if he wasn't going to school, 465 00:21:11,696 --> 00:21:13,498 no video, no TV. 466 00:21:13,531 --> 00:21:14,832 There's no computer all week. 467 00:21:14,866 --> 00:21:16,533 And I need you to be on the same page as me, 468 00:21:16,567 --> 00:21:18,602 because I don't want to give him mixed signals. 469 00:21:18,635 --> 00:21:20,936 Don't you think I've tried that already? 470 00:21:20,970 --> 00:21:22,772 Absolutely nothing works when he gets like this. 471 00:21:22,805 --> 00:21:25,274 But he has to go to school. 472 00:21:25,307 --> 00:21:26,941 He hasto go to school. 473 00:21:26,975 --> 00:21:28,777 He just can't quit, all right? 474 00:21:28,810 --> 00:21:30,478 He has to understand that sometimes in life 475 00:21:30,511 --> 00:21:32,479 there are things that he has to do 476 00:21:32,512 --> 00:21:33,813 that he doesn't like. 477 00:21:33,846 --> 00:21:36,549 I know! And I agree. 478 00:21:36,583 --> 00:21:40,819 But, maybe this isn't the right school for Tim. 479 00:21:40,852 --> 00:21:43,821 I mean, his teacher's don't understand him. 480 00:21:43,854 --> 00:21:45,389 And other than Charlie, 481 00:21:45,422 --> 00:21:47,357 he doesn't really have any friends. 482 00:21:48,725 --> 00:21:50,794 You know Bob's son. 483 00:21:50,827 --> 00:21:52,728 He goes to a private school. 484 00:21:54,763 --> 00:21:55,998 Seems to be doing quite well there. 485 00:21:56,031 --> 00:21:58,833 Okay, well, there you go. 486 00:22:00,434 --> 00:22:02,235 Okay, well, 487 00:22:02,268 --> 00:22:05,438 that means that you're gonna have to find the school, 488 00:22:05,471 --> 00:22:07,439 which might be a blessing in disguise. 489 00:22:07,472 --> 00:22:09,941 Maybe less expensive than all this therapy, okay? 490 00:22:09,974 --> 00:22:11,743 [scoffs]I gotta get to work. 491 00:22:14,312 --> 00:22:15,579 I love you. 492 00:22:19,616 --> 00:22:23,319 Mrs. Spencer, we aren't seeing that kind of behavior here. 493 00:22:23,352 --> 00:22:25,787 I've observed him in class, and he's quiet, 494 00:22:25,821 --> 00:22:27,722 but perfectly fine. 495 00:22:27,755 --> 00:22:30,024 Well, I guess he saves it up for me then. 496 00:22:30,057 --> 00:22:32,992 Well, sometimes kids act out to get their parents attention. 497 00:22:33,026 --> 00:22:34,560 Is everything okay at home? 498 00:22:34,593 --> 00:22:35,761 Everything is fine. 499 00:22:35,794 --> 00:22:37,396 Mr. Collins, I really appreciate 500 00:22:37,430 --> 00:22:40,465 everything that you and Dr. Maynard have done, 501 00:22:40,498 --> 00:22:43,034 but Henry and I've decided to send Tim to a private school. 502 00:22:43,067 --> 00:22:44,401 Really? Where? 503 00:22:44,435 --> 00:22:45,936 The Campbell Academy. 504 00:22:45,969 --> 00:22:48,571 I'm sorry to hear that, but Campbell does have 505 00:22:48,604 --> 00:22:49,639 a fantastic reputation. 506 00:22:49,672 --> 00:22:52,674 I'm... 507 00:22:52,707 --> 00:22:55,276 We certainly will miss him. 508 00:22:55,309 --> 00:22:57,411 Well, if there's anything I can do to help 509 00:22:57,445 --> 00:22:58,812 with the transition to the new school, 510 00:22:58,846 --> 00:23:00,447 please let me know. 511 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,582 Well, thank you, both. I really appreciate it. 512 00:23:02,615 --> 00:23:03,783 Good luck. 513 00:23:03,816 --> 00:23:04,917 Take care. 514 00:23:07,619 --> 00:23:08,887 Kyle, honey, hurry up. 515 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:10,055 You're going to miss the bus. 516 00:23:10,088 --> 00:23:11,456 Yeah, okay. 517 00:23:11,489 --> 00:23:13,057 Seriously, Kyle, if I have to drive you, 518 00:23:13,090 --> 00:23:15,425 then Tim's going to be late, all right? Please hurry. 519 00:23:15,459 --> 00:23:17,394 All right, well, I'm sorry that Tim's the one 520 00:23:17,427 --> 00:23:19,528 who gets to go to a fancy private school without bus. 521 00:23:19,562 --> 00:23:21,530 Okay, are we going to do that again? 522 00:23:21,564 --> 00:23:24,332 Hmm? Honey. 523 00:23:24,366 --> 00:23:26,400 Whatever.[sighs] 524 00:23:26,434 --> 00:23:28,569 [Kyle] Good bye. 525 00:23:28,602 --> 00:23:30,737 Can you take Jessie on your way to work? 526 00:23:30,771 --> 00:23:32,705 Sure can.Thank you. 527 00:23:32,738 --> 00:23:34,640 You ready to go, pal?Uh-huh. 528 00:23:34,674 --> 00:23:36,608 How's school going, by the way? 529 00:23:36,641 --> 00:23:38,077 Good. 530 00:23:38,110 --> 00:23:39,811 The kids are very cool and the teachers are nice, 531 00:23:39,844 --> 00:23:43,046 but the homework is really hard. 532 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:44,548 Well, don't worry about that. 533 00:23:44,582 --> 00:23:46,016 We're gonna get through it together. 534 00:23:46,049 --> 00:23:47,850 Okay.Jessie knows all the necessaries. 535 00:23:47,884 --> 00:23:49,819 Huh? Okay. 536 00:23:49,852 --> 00:23:51,587 Guys, you gotta hurry. All right? 537 00:23:51,620 --> 00:23:54,022 We're all gonna be late, if we don't get out of here. 538 00:24:05,631 --> 00:24:07,332 [school bell rings] 539 00:24:08,966 --> 00:24:10,835 [chuckles] Good morning. 540 00:24:13,504 --> 00:24:18,040 Light can pass through some types of matter. 541 00:24:18,073 --> 00:24:20,810 Matter that allows light to pass through it, 542 00:24:20,843 --> 00:24:24,378 so a clear image can be seen, is called? 543 00:24:24,412 --> 00:24:25,579 Christopher. 544 00:24:25,613 --> 00:24:27,348 Transparent. 545 00:24:27,381 --> 00:24:28,649 Yes. Can you give me an example? 546 00:24:28,682 --> 00:24:29,850 Windows. 547 00:24:29,883 --> 00:24:31,851 Right. What about matter that allows some, 548 00:24:31,884 --> 00:24:34,086 but not all light to pass through it? 549 00:24:34,120 --> 00:24:35,487 What is that called? 550 00:24:35,521 --> 00:24:36,855 David. 551 00:24:36,888 --> 00:24:38,489 Translucent. Like wax paper. 552 00:24:38,523 --> 00:24:42,860 Yes. What about matter that allows no light 553 00:24:42,893 --> 00:24:45,028 to pass through it. What is that called? 554 00:24:49,031 --> 00:24:50,365 Tim? 555 00:24:51,633 --> 00:24:53,368 Uh... 556 00:24:53,401 --> 00:24:54,536 Tim? 557 00:24:54,569 --> 00:24:56,603 Were you paying attention? 558 00:24:56,637 --> 00:24:58,138 Yes, sir. 559 00:24:58,171 --> 00:25:00,941 So what word do we use for matter 560 00:25:00,974 --> 00:25:04,744 that does not allow any light to pass through it? 561 00:25:04,777 --> 00:25:06,811 Uh... solid? 562 00:25:10,614 --> 00:25:11,882 Yes, Christopher. 563 00:25:11,915 --> 00:25:13,483 It's called opaque. 564 00:25:13,516 --> 00:25:15,685 Exactly. And what happens when you shine a light 565 00:25:15,718 --> 00:25:18,387 on an object that's opaque? 566 00:25:18,420 --> 00:25:19,555 David. 567 00:25:19,588 --> 00:25:20,756 You create a shadow. 568 00:25:20,789 --> 00:25:22,023 Yes, that's right. 569 00:25:22,057 --> 00:25:24,592 Okay? Everybody get out a pencil and paper. 570 00:25:24,625 --> 00:25:26,526 We're going to do an experiment. 571 00:25:35,567 --> 00:25:37,702 This cake is so good. 572 00:25:37,735 --> 00:25:39,170 And so cute. 573 00:25:39,203 --> 00:25:40,637 I'm so glad you could make it. 574 00:25:40,671 --> 00:25:43,006 Charlie really misses Tim at school. 575 00:25:43,039 --> 00:25:44,741 Oh, I know. I'm sorry, Lisa. 576 00:25:44,775 --> 00:25:46,176 Oh, my God, don't be silly. 577 00:25:46,209 --> 00:25:48,110 I didn't mean that at all. 578 00:25:48,143 --> 00:25:51,546 Hey, if I could get Darren to transfer Charlie to Campbell 579 00:25:51,580 --> 00:25:52,847 I would in a heartbeat. 580 00:25:52,881 --> 00:25:54,748 You know, he was just so miserable, I mean, 581 00:25:54,782 --> 00:25:56,116 we didn't know what else to do. 582 00:25:56,149 --> 00:25:57,985 So why did you pull Tim out? 583 00:25:58,018 --> 00:26:00,520 Do you really think the academics at Campbell 584 00:26:00,553 --> 00:26:01,854 are so much better? 585 00:26:01,888 --> 00:26:03,655 You know it's not about the academics. 586 00:26:03,689 --> 00:26:05,491 Tim just needed a different environment. 587 00:26:05,524 --> 00:26:07,158 But all of his friends are here. 588 00:26:07,192 --> 00:26:09,860 And he gets to see them every week at soccer. 589 00:26:09,894 --> 00:26:13,430 Besides, there's lots of ways to keep in touch with friends. 590 00:26:13,463 --> 00:26:15,498 You know, it's not like we moved. 591 00:26:17,866 --> 00:26:21,136 Tim, honey, are you okay? 592 00:26:21,169 --> 00:26:24,571 I want to go home. I don't feel well. 593 00:26:24,605 --> 00:26:25,939 We can't go home, honey. 594 00:26:25,972 --> 00:26:28,008 It's Charlie's birthday party. 595 00:26:28,041 --> 00:26:29,675 I don't care. 596 00:26:29,709 --> 00:26:32,477 Honey, listen, Charlie is your friend, 597 00:26:32,511 --> 00:26:33,778 and it wouldn't be right to leave 598 00:26:33,812 --> 00:26:36,981 his birthday party, okay? 599 00:26:37,015 --> 00:26:40,217 What's going on with you, baby? 600 00:26:40,250 --> 00:26:42,953 Listen, maybe we need to give Dr. Slater 601 00:26:42,986 --> 00:26:44,987 a call later, okay? 602 00:26:45,021 --> 00:26:48,657 No, it's not that. 603 00:26:48,690 --> 00:26:51,226 Well, Tim, we're not going home, okay? 604 00:26:51,259 --> 00:26:52,693 We're staying. 605 00:26:55,562 --> 00:26:56,730 You okay? 606 00:26:56,763 --> 00:26:58,031 I'm okay. He has a headache. 607 00:26:58,064 --> 00:26:59,933 He'll be fine. 608 00:26:59,966 --> 00:27:01,134 I don't know. 609 00:27:01,167 --> 00:27:02,968 Parties are stressful for kids. 610 00:27:03,001 --> 00:27:04,636 I mean, parties are stressful for me, 611 00:27:04,669 --> 00:27:05,870 especially with this crowd. 612 00:27:05,903 --> 00:27:07,672 Right? Oh, my Gosh. 613 00:27:07,705 --> 00:27:09,040 That's why you're my best friend. 614 00:27:09,073 --> 00:27:10,607 I love you. I'm here, you know. 615 00:27:10,641 --> 00:27:11,842 I love you more. 616 00:27:11,875 --> 00:27:13,609 And I have cake. 617 00:27:13,643 --> 00:27:17,512 Okay. You ready to go? One more soccer ball. 618 00:27:17,546 --> 00:27:19,848 And I think we're good. Don't forget the star. 619 00:27:19,881 --> 00:27:21,115 Okay, now I'm good. There we go. 620 00:27:21,149 --> 00:27:24,184 You ready everybody? Who wants cake? 621 00:27:24,217 --> 00:27:26,119 Whoo-hoo! 622 00:27:26,153 --> 00:27:27,720 Are you ready, sweetheart? 623 00:27:27,754 --> 00:27:31,090 Okay, Charlie. 624 00:27:31,123 --> 00:27:34,025 Can we give a big, big, big happy birthday-- 625 00:27:34,059 --> 00:27:36,961 Timmy will you lead the happy birthday, please? 626 00:27:36,994 --> 00:27:38,896 Come on, Tim.It's okay, honey. 627 00:27:38,929 --> 00:27:41,030 It's okay. He's just not feeling well. 628 00:27:41,064 --> 00:27:42,231 Let's save him a piece, okay? 629 00:27:42,265 --> 00:27:44,067 Okay.I love you. 630 00:27:44,100 --> 00:27:46,034 And we're so proud of you. 631 00:27:46,068 --> 00:27:50,505 Everybody ready? One, two, three. 632 00:27:50,538 --> 00:27:53,707 [All] Happy birthday! 633 00:27:53,740 --> 00:27:55,776 Whoo-hoo! 634 00:28:11,654 --> 00:28:13,756 [Kyle] All right, I'm done. 635 00:28:15,691 --> 00:28:16,858 Look, Mommy, I'm done, too. 636 00:28:16,892 --> 00:28:18,226 Good job, sweetie. 637 00:28:18,259 --> 00:28:20,261 That's not fair! I can't do this! 638 00:28:20,295 --> 00:28:21,896 This homework is stupid! 639 00:28:21,929 --> 00:28:23,964 Let's go watch some TV. 640 00:28:23,998 --> 00:28:25,165 Come here, let me see. 641 00:28:27,233 --> 00:28:28,601 Okay, is this your homework? 642 00:28:28,634 --> 00:28:30,569 Uh-huh.Okay. 643 00:28:33,171 --> 00:28:35,740 It looks like you have to read this chapter 644 00:28:35,773 --> 00:28:37,674 and then answer the questions. 645 00:28:37,708 --> 00:28:39,610 So how much of it have you read? 646 00:28:39,643 --> 00:28:40,811 I don't know. 647 00:28:40,844 --> 00:28:43,112 Well, do you remember reading it? 648 00:28:43,146 --> 00:28:44,647 [silent] 649 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,615 Why don't I read it to you and we can work 650 00:28:46,648 --> 00:28:47,816 on it together, okay? 651 00:28:47,849 --> 00:28:48,983 But I hate school. 652 00:28:49,017 --> 00:28:50,251 Oh, Tim. 653 00:28:50,284 --> 00:28:52,085 And all the other kids are so smart. 654 00:28:52,119 --> 00:28:54,855 Honey, look, we can handle this, okay? 655 00:28:54,888 --> 00:28:56,956 I can talk to your teachers about the work... 656 00:28:56,989 --> 00:28:58,157 I'm gonna fail. I hate it. 657 00:28:58,190 --> 00:28:59,591 Listen. I hate it. 658 00:28:59,625 --> 00:29:01,827 You just have to take one day at a time. 659 00:29:01,860 --> 00:29:04,262 But I'm gonna fail. I can't do anything right. 660 00:29:04,295 --> 00:29:05,830 Honey, you're not gonna fail, okay? 661 00:29:05,863 --> 00:29:08,698 No, honey, you're not gonna fail, okay? 662 00:29:08,732 --> 00:29:10,300 We won't let you. 663 00:29:10,334 --> 00:29:12,301 Tim, we're going to get through this. 664 00:29:12,335 --> 00:29:16,071 No use. I'm stupid. I hate this school! 665 00:29:16,104 --> 00:29:17,572 I'm not doing homework. 666 00:29:17,605 --> 00:29:19,841 Tim, you're just having a bad day, all right? 667 00:29:19,874 --> 00:29:21,642 I'm not having a bad day. 668 00:29:21,675 --> 00:29:23,043 I'm not going to school anymore, so there's no point. 669 00:29:23,076 --> 00:29:24,845 Okay, we can't go through this again. 670 00:29:24,878 --> 00:29:26,979 All right, we can't keep switching schools every time 671 00:29:27,012 --> 00:29:28,213 it gets hard. 672 00:29:28,247 --> 00:29:29,715 You don't get it. 673 00:29:29,749 --> 00:29:31,683 I don't need to go to school anymore. 674 00:29:31,716 --> 00:29:33,251 Hey, don't be ridiculous, Tim. 675 00:29:33,284 --> 00:29:35,286 You're only 14. Of course you need to go to school. 676 00:29:35,319 --> 00:29:37,020 Why can't I be home schooled? 677 00:29:37,054 --> 00:29:39,089 Tim, we've been through this a million times, 678 00:29:39,122 --> 00:29:41,190 and we're not talking...It's inconvenient for you? 679 00:29:41,223 --> 00:29:42,659 I need you to calm down. 680 00:29:42,692 --> 00:29:43,960 You hate me. That's why. 681 00:29:43,993 --> 00:29:45,861 I hate you, so I'm not goin' to school anymore. 682 00:29:45,894 --> 00:29:47,796 Tim, calm...Mom, I'm hungry. 683 00:29:47,829 --> 00:29:49,597 I hate you, too, you little brat. 684 00:29:49,630 --> 00:29:50,831 Tim, stop it. 685 00:29:50,865 --> 00:29:53,567 I hate everything. I wish I was dead. 686 00:29:58,104 --> 00:29:59,304 What's going on? 687 00:29:59,337 --> 00:30:01,373 Hey, let's just order pizza, okay? 688 00:30:01,406 --> 00:30:04,609 Mom.Again? 689 00:30:04,642 --> 00:30:06,310 Kyle, Tim's just having a bad day. 690 00:30:06,343 --> 00:30:08,344 He's always having a bad day. 691 00:30:08,378 --> 00:30:11,147 You shouldn't let him get away with acting like that. 692 00:30:11,181 --> 00:30:12,348 Are you gonna ground him? 693 00:30:12,382 --> 00:30:13,783 Let me worry about, Tim, okay? 694 00:30:13,816 --> 00:30:15,650 I am the mom. 695 00:30:15,684 --> 00:30:18,252 Yeah, well, clearly that isn't working out very well, is it? 696 00:30:20,654 --> 00:30:22,189 Come here. 697 00:30:24,357 --> 00:30:26,358 All right. Let's go! 698 00:30:26,392 --> 00:30:28,760 [cheering] 699 00:30:32,330 --> 00:30:33,698 That's right. Settle down. 700 00:30:33,731 --> 00:30:34,932 Come on. 701 00:30:34,965 --> 00:30:36,133 All right, open it up! 702 00:30:36,166 --> 00:30:38,802 [cheering] 703 00:30:40,269 --> 00:30:42,138 Awesome! 704 00:30:42,171 --> 00:30:45,773 I tell you, this team kicked our butt the last couple weeks. 705 00:30:45,807 --> 00:30:47,775 Maybe we'll do better now that Tim is back, huh? 706 00:30:47,809 --> 00:30:49,143 Where the hell has he been? 707 00:30:49,176 --> 00:30:51,212 Oh, he's just had some stomach problems lately. 708 00:30:51,245 --> 00:30:53,179 Oh. Well he looks better now, thank God. 709 00:30:53,213 --> 00:30:54,680 Yeah. 710 00:30:54,714 --> 00:30:56,916 We haven't seen him at practice much either. 711 00:30:56,949 --> 00:30:59,918 Seriously, Catherine, is he playing for another team? 712 00:30:59,951 --> 00:31:03,221 Hardly. He just hasn't been feeling great, that's all. 713 00:31:03,254 --> 00:31:05,022 Yeah, I bet they keep him really busy 714 00:31:05,055 --> 00:31:06,256 at that private school of his. 715 00:31:06,289 --> 00:31:08,191 Yes, they do. 716 00:31:08,225 --> 00:31:09,392 Come on, Tim. 717 00:31:09,426 --> 00:31:11,660 [cheering] 718 00:31:13,762 --> 00:31:14,996 How could you miss that? 719 00:31:15,030 --> 00:31:16,431 Tim, it's okay, honey. 720 00:31:16,464 --> 00:31:17,832 Tim! 721 00:31:17,865 --> 00:31:19,033 Hey, what's goin' on out there? 722 00:31:19,066 --> 00:31:20,400 Where's he going? 723 00:31:20,434 --> 00:31:22,202 [Catherine] What the hell happened, Henry? 724 00:31:22,236 --> 00:31:24,103 The kid gave him a hard time for letting that goal go. 725 00:31:24,137 --> 00:31:25,938 [Woman] I'm not one to gossip, 726 00:31:25,971 --> 00:31:28,173 but I heard he got kicked out of both of those schools. 727 00:31:28,206 --> 00:31:30,675 Yes, well, what happened was he would walk out of the school 728 00:31:30,708 --> 00:31:33,444 in the middle of the day, just whenever he felt like it. Yeah. 729 00:31:33,477 --> 00:31:35,812 You know, I'm telling ya, there is something wrong 730 00:31:35,846 --> 00:31:37,180 with that kid. 731 00:31:37,213 --> 00:31:39,415 Who runs off the field in the middle of the game. 732 00:31:39,449 --> 00:31:41,416 They have no control over him. 733 00:31:41,450 --> 00:31:43,452 I would never put up with that kind of behavior. 734 00:31:43,485 --> 00:31:45,420 The kids don't want to hang around him anymore, 735 00:31:45,454 --> 00:31:48,122 and that's okay by me because I wouldn't let mine 736 00:31:48,156 --> 00:31:49,757 go over there anyway. 737 00:31:51,458 --> 00:31:55,928 All right, guys. Let's go. Let's pick it up. 738 00:31:55,962 --> 00:31:58,263 Yes. Yes. 739 00:31:58,296 --> 00:31:59,464 Yes. 740 00:31:59,497 --> 00:32:00,865 No. 741 00:32:00,899 --> 00:32:02,132 Yes. 742 00:32:02,166 --> 00:32:04,134 Oh, suck it. 743 00:32:04,168 --> 00:32:05,369 I want a rematch, Charlie. 744 00:32:05,402 --> 00:32:06,870 Too damn bad. 745 00:32:08,471 --> 00:32:10,139 Hey, it's your turn, man. 746 00:32:11,874 --> 00:32:14,809 I'm good. Billy can play my turn. 747 00:32:14,842 --> 00:32:16,911 You sure? I mean, you want to do something else? 748 00:32:16,944 --> 00:32:19,780 We don't have to play video games. 749 00:32:19,813 --> 00:32:20,981 Nope. 750 00:32:21,014 --> 00:32:22,182 Come on, we hardly see you anymore. 751 00:32:22,215 --> 00:32:24,116 We should do something. 752 00:32:24,149 --> 00:32:27,052 Board game, play cards? 753 00:32:27,086 --> 00:32:28,353 Something. 754 00:32:28,387 --> 00:32:30,154 Oh, I have an idea. Why don't we go outside 755 00:32:30,188 --> 00:32:31,855 and kick the ball around a bit? 756 00:32:31,889 --> 00:32:34,825 We could still use you on the team. 757 00:32:34,858 --> 00:32:37,827 No. I'm done with soccer. 758 00:32:37,860 --> 00:32:39,028 Why, man? 759 00:32:39,061 --> 00:32:43,264 Just wasn't fun anymore, you know? 760 00:32:43,298 --> 00:32:46,734 No, I really don't know. 761 00:32:46,767 --> 00:32:48,803 I don't know what the matter is, man. 762 00:32:48,836 --> 00:32:50,070 Those kids were assholes. 763 00:32:50,104 --> 00:32:51,738 You shouldn't have let 'em get to ya. 764 00:32:51,771 --> 00:32:54,440 They had nothin' to do with it. 765 00:32:54,473 --> 00:32:55,874 It's just boring, that's all. 766 00:32:55,908 --> 00:32:57,175 Soccer's not boring. 767 00:32:57,209 --> 00:32:59,911 What the hell do you know? 768 00:32:59,944 --> 00:33:01,779 You know what I know? 769 00:33:01,813 --> 00:33:03,147 You used to be fun to hang out with. 770 00:33:03,180 --> 00:33:05,448 Now you're just an asshole. 771 00:33:05,481 --> 00:33:07,950 So leave. 772 00:33:07,983 --> 00:33:09,318 I didn't ask you guys to come over. 773 00:33:09,351 --> 00:33:11,153 Oh, I know. 774 00:33:11,186 --> 00:33:13,121 God, what is your problem? 775 00:33:14,923 --> 00:33:16,757 Maybe you're my problem, Charlie. 776 00:33:19,292 --> 00:33:20,460 You're pathetic. 777 00:33:23,562 --> 00:33:26,064 You know what, your mom begged my mom 778 00:33:26,097 --> 00:33:27,833 for us to come over. 779 00:33:27,866 --> 00:33:29,767 And now you've become a real dick. 780 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,970 Let's get out of here. He's a freak. 781 00:33:33,003 --> 00:33:34,871 Yeah. 782 00:33:43,045 --> 00:33:44,379 Emotionally disturbed. 783 00:33:44,412 --> 00:33:46,347 No, I'm not gonna have my son labeled 784 00:33:46,380 --> 00:33:47,748 for the rest of his life. 785 00:33:50,450 --> 00:33:54,219 No, no, we can't afford any more private schools, okay? 786 00:33:54,253 --> 00:33:57,889 We lost a fortune on the last one. 787 00:33:57,922 --> 00:34:01,259 [sighs] Aren't there any other options besides special Ed? 788 00:34:05,295 --> 00:34:08,430 Okay. 789 00:34:08,464 --> 00:34:11,066 Okay. So what do I have to do 790 00:34:11,099 --> 00:34:14,835 to set up a meeting and have him classified? 791 00:34:14,869 --> 00:34:16,303 [alarm clock buzzes] 792 00:34:16,336 --> 00:34:19,873 Tim, honey, you're late for school again. 793 00:34:24,610 --> 00:34:26,844 Honey, I know you're havin' a bad morning, 794 00:34:26,878 --> 00:34:29,013 but you know that lying there doesn't help. 795 00:34:29,046 --> 00:34:32,349 Honey, please, just try moving your legs. 796 00:34:32,383 --> 00:34:34,184 No. 797 00:34:34,217 --> 00:34:36,052 Listen, remember what the doctor said? 798 00:34:36,086 --> 00:34:39,021 Sometimes you gotta get the blood flowing in your body 799 00:34:39,054 --> 00:34:40,555 to wake it up. 800 00:34:44,025 --> 00:34:48,328 Tim, I know it's hard, okay? 801 00:34:48,361 --> 00:34:51,263 Sometimes I don't feel like getting out of bed either. 802 00:34:51,297 --> 00:34:52,464 Go away. 803 00:34:52,498 --> 00:34:55,000 I'm not going to school. 804 00:34:55,033 --> 00:34:59,337 Honey, I know you feel terrible, okay? 805 00:34:59,370 --> 00:35:03,139 The only thing you have to do right now 806 00:35:03,173 --> 00:35:05,942 is get out of bed. 807 00:35:05,975 --> 00:35:08,276 Just try moving. 808 00:35:10,612 --> 00:35:15,616 [sighs] Well, there are those beautiful eyes. 809 00:35:15,649 --> 00:35:17,317 See? 810 00:35:17,350 --> 00:35:19,885 When is the last time you took a shower? 811 00:35:19,919 --> 00:35:22,855 Okay, let's get you in the shower. 812 00:35:22,888 --> 00:35:24,556 Well, how about a bubble bath? 813 00:35:24,589 --> 00:35:28,392 Youused to love taking bubble baths. 814 00:35:28,426 --> 00:35:32,295 No, I'm not going to school. 815 00:35:32,329 --> 00:35:35,397 I don't think I said anything about school now, did I? 816 00:35:36,465 --> 00:35:39,067 [water running] 817 00:35:42,103 --> 00:35:43,238 [knocks] 818 00:35:43,271 --> 00:35:47,106 Tim, are you okay in there? 819 00:35:47,141 --> 00:35:48,407 Tim? 820 00:35:48,442 --> 00:35:50,343 If you don't answer me, I'm coming in. 821 00:35:53,111 --> 00:35:55,647 Tim, honey, you have to turn the water off. 822 00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,114 [phone rings] 823 00:35:57,148 --> 00:35:59,616 Are you all right? 824 00:35:59,650 --> 00:36:02,185 Okay, listen, I'm gonna be downstairs if you need me. 825 00:36:02,218 --> 00:36:03,586 I've got to grab this. 826 00:36:32,609 --> 00:36:34,010 Honey! 827 00:36:34,043 --> 00:36:37,580 How are you? Let me get you a towel. 828 00:36:37,613 --> 00:36:39,314 Here. 829 00:36:39,347 --> 00:36:41,616 You have been in there forever. 830 00:36:43,417 --> 00:36:45,251 I bet you're a complete prune by now. 831 00:36:45,285 --> 00:36:47,120 [sighs] 832 00:36:47,153 --> 00:36:49,154 You know what, just look at your fingers, 833 00:36:49,189 --> 00:36:50,355 right? 834 00:36:50,389 --> 00:36:51,590 Look at that. 835 00:36:51,623 --> 00:36:53,258 Why do you think that happens, huh? 836 00:36:53,292 --> 00:36:57,095 You know, I read somewhere it's like a survival mechanism 837 00:36:57,128 --> 00:36:58,629 from the stone age. 838 00:36:58,662 --> 00:37:01,664 You know, our fingers wrinkled up to give us a better grip. 839 00:37:01,698 --> 00:37:04,233 Something like that. 840 00:37:04,266 --> 00:37:06,602 I don't know, I guess like treads, 841 00:37:06,635 --> 00:37:10,271 on a tire? Yeah. 842 00:37:10,305 --> 00:37:14,341 I don't think they had tires during the stone age, Mom. 843 00:37:14,374 --> 00:37:18,144 No, I guess they didn't. [sighs] 844 00:37:18,177 --> 00:37:20,145 I can't even get him out of the house anymore. 845 00:37:20,178 --> 00:37:22,247 Well, I rarely recommend medication, 846 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,550 but Tim is severely depressed. 847 00:37:25,583 --> 00:37:27,618 Therapy alone just isn't enough. 848 00:37:27,651 --> 00:37:30,053 I surely don't understand why this is happening. 849 00:37:30,086 --> 00:37:33,289 Look, anxiety and depression are often co-occurring. 850 00:37:33,323 --> 00:37:36,991 One can often exasperate the other. 851 00:37:37,026 --> 00:37:39,427 Sometimes medications can help. 852 00:37:39,460 --> 00:37:42,230 I just hate to give my kids even ibuprofen, 853 00:37:42,263 --> 00:37:44,464 unless it's absolutely necessary. 854 00:37:44,497 --> 00:37:46,266 What would you prescribe? 855 00:37:46,299 --> 00:37:48,034 Actually medications have to be managed 856 00:37:48,067 --> 00:37:49,335 through a psychiatrist. 857 00:37:49,368 --> 00:37:51,102 Who were you working with before? 858 00:37:55,673 --> 00:37:58,308 We'll start him on 859 00:37:58,342 --> 00:38:02,078 a very small dose at first. 860 00:38:02,111 --> 00:38:03,546 See how he does. 861 00:38:03,579 --> 00:38:06,081 Increase it gradually. 862 00:38:06,114 --> 00:38:09,317 I'll need to see him every two weeks to monitor him. 863 00:38:09,351 --> 00:38:12,719 Common side effects can include drowsiness, 864 00:38:12,753 --> 00:38:17,022 dizziness, insomnia, nausea, weight gain, 865 00:38:17,056 --> 00:38:19,458 weight loss, diarrhea, constipation. 866 00:38:25,396 --> 00:38:27,264 Morning, Kyle. 867 00:38:32,434 --> 00:38:34,536 [Henry] See you later, Kyle. 868 00:38:36,672 --> 00:38:40,341 Okay, boys, we seem to be running a bit late. 869 00:38:40,375 --> 00:38:42,042 I'll be taking you to school. 870 00:38:42,076 --> 00:38:43,543 Let's get something to eat on the way, shall we? 871 00:38:43,577 --> 00:38:46,245 [phone rings] 872 00:38:50,315 --> 00:38:52,217 [Answering Machine] Hi, you've reached the Spencer's. 873 00:38:52,250 --> 00:38:54,619 Leave a message and we'll call you back. 874 00:38:54,652 --> 00:38:56,020 [beep] 875 00:38:56,053 --> 00:38:57,621 Hi, Catherine. It's Lisa. 876 00:38:57,654 --> 00:38:59,489 We really missed you at the meeting yesterday. 877 00:38:59,522 --> 00:39:02,392 I know you're so busy, but please don't leave me 878 00:39:02,425 --> 00:39:04,059 on this committee alone, please. 879 00:39:04,093 --> 00:39:05,727 I cannot deal with these women by myself. 880 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:09,297 I have not seen you in a while, and I'm worried about you. 881 00:39:09,330 --> 00:39:13,733 Please, please just call me back, okay? Please. Bye. 882 00:39:23,808 --> 00:39:26,476 Hey, what are you guys up to? 883 00:39:26,510 --> 00:39:28,312 I'm writing a song, Mom. 884 00:39:28,345 --> 00:39:31,147 It's incredible. It just came to me like pow! 885 00:39:31,180 --> 00:39:32,715 Do you wanna hear it? Sure. 886 00:39:32,748 --> 00:39:35,417 I'm not done yet, but do you wanna read it anyway? 887 00:39:35,450 --> 00:39:36,751 Mm-hmm. 888 00:39:36,784 --> 00:39:38,352 Never mind, I-I-I want to work on it some more. 889 00:39:38,385 --> 00:39:39,620 I-I need to finish the lyrics. 890 00:39:39,653 --> 00:39:40,821 Okay. 891 00:39:40,854 --> 00:39:42,556 I-I-I need to work on the music. 892 00:39:42,589 --> 00:39:44,057 You know what might help? 893 00:39:44,090 --> 00:39:46,326 A keyboard in my room. That's what I need. 894 00:39:46,359 --> 00:39:48,760 Is there any chance we have a keyboard? 895 00:39:48,793 --> 00:39:50,795 We used to a long time ago, honey. 896 00:39:50,829 --> 00:39:52,196 I don't think we have one right now. 897 00:39:52,230 --> 00:39:53,564 Oh, you know what might work? 898 00:39:53,597 --> 00:39:55,433 Garage band. Does our computer have a garage band? 899 00:39:55,466 --> 00:39:57,334 I think so. I'm not quite sure, honey. 900 00:39:57,367 --> 00:39:59,669 Great, so, can I use the computer? 901 00:39:59,702 --> 00:40:02,204 Tim, the computer's for school work, remember? 902 00:40:02,238 --> 00:40:05,674 Mom, this is more important than school work. 903 00:40:05,707 --> 00:40:08,543 This is my life we're talking about. 904 00:40:08,576 --> 00:40:09,810 Well, I think it sounds like a good idea. 905 00:40:09,844 --> 00:40:12,446 Great, so can I use the computer? 906 00:40:12,479 --> 00:40:13,647 Please? 907 00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:15,214 [giggles] Okay. 908 00:40:15,248 --> 00:40:17,115 Just this once. 909 00:40:24,255 --> 00:40:28,091 How long has Tim been sitting in front of that computer? 910 00:40:28,124 --> 00:40:30,560 May be time to pull the plug. 911 00:40:30,593 --> 00:40:32,494 I'm just happy he's not depressed. 912 00:40:32,527 --> 00:40:35,096 It's 11:00, sweetheart. 913 00:40:35,129 --> 00:40:36,397 [sighs] 914 00:40:36,430 --> 00:40:38,699 So how was your day? 915 00:40:38,732 --> 00:40:40,668 My day was kind of rotten. 916 00:40:40,701 --> 00:40:42,835 I think I have to fly to Dallas. 917 00:40:42,869 --> 00:40:44,336 Wait, when? 918 00:40:44,370 --> 00:40:46,638 Probably Wednesday. I'll know in a little while. 919 00:40:46,672 --> 00:40:48,707 If I lose this account, I could lose my job. 920 00:40:48,740 --> 00:40:50,775 I should only be gone a couple of days. 921 00:40:50,808 --> 00:40:52,810 I know, honey, it's just-- 922 00:40:52,843 --> 00:40:55,312 [sighs] I'm just exhausted. 923 00:40:55,345 --> 00:40:57,681 You know, it's like a rollercoaster with Tim 924 00:40:57,714 --> 00:41:00,216 every day and he's afraid to leave the house, 925 00:41:00,249 --> 00:41:02,284 and I can't leave him, it's just-- 926 00:41:02,317 --> 00:41:04,786 I thought things were getting easier with the meds. 927 00:41:04,819 --> 00:41:08,122 Yeah, but the side effects are really scary. 928 00:41:08,155 --> 00:41:10,724 Yeah, I know. [sighs] 929 00:41:10,757 --> 00:41:13,859 It's not supposed to be this hard. 930 00:41:13,893 --> 00:41:15,595 You know, teenagers are a handful 931 00:41:15,628 --> 00:41:19,431 in the best of circumstances. Maybe it's just a phase. 932 00:41:19,464 --> 00:41:22,100 Well, if that's the case, it's the longest freakin' phase ever. 933 00:41:23,734 --> 00:41:27,537 You know what, I think you could use 934 00:41:27,570 --> 00:41:31,607 just a little time out with your dream date. 935 00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:33,709 Yeah, well, where is he? 936 00:41:33,742 --> 00:41:34,910 I can call him anytime. 937 00:41:34,943 --> 00:41:36,311 Okay, good. 938 00:41:36,344 --> 00:41:37,712 He's on speed dial. 939 00:41:37,745 --> 00:41:40,914 Honey, I can't leave Tim, you know that. 940 00:41:40,947 --> 00:41:43,282 What would we do, leave him with Kyle? No. 941 00:41:43,316 --> 00:41:45,218 I'm not gonna put him through that. 942 00:41:45,251 --> 00:41:47,152 [phone rings] 943 00:41:48,353 --> 00:41:50,287 Hi, Bob. 944 00:41:50,321 --> 00:41:53,424 Yeah-- [ahem]-- oh, I know. 945 00:41:53,457 --> 00:41:55,726 Yeah, I've had to deal with him many times. 946 00:41:55,759 --> 00:41:57,460 It's-- it's-- it's difficult. 947 00:41:59,462 --> 00:42:02,297 All right. I'll smooth it out when I get there. 948 00:42:02,331 --> 00:42:04,465 I'll call you when I arrive. 949 00:42:04,498 --> 00:42:05,799 All right, thanks. 950 00:42:07,968 --> 00:42:12,339 Wow, it's unbelievable how much this book describes Tim. 951 00:42:12,372 --> 00:42:15,407 I really wish you would read at least a few chapters. 952 00:42:15,441 --> 00:42:17,375 It's helpful to learn about this information. 953 00:42:17,408 --> 00:42:20,411 I would love to, sweetheart, I just am swamped with work. 954 00:42:20,445 --> 00:42:22,446 If you could highlight some of the important parts, 955 00:42:22,479 --> 00:42:23,880 I'd really appreciate it. 956 00:42:23,913 --> 00:42:25,849 Sure. 957 00:42:25,882 --> 00:42:30,418 My stomach is growling. Are there any leftovers? 958 00:42:30,453 --> 00:42:31,653 No. [sighs] 959 00:42:34,722 --> 00:42:37,458 God, how did I not know the kids could have anxiety 960 00:42:37,491 --> 00:42:39,760 or depression for no reason. 961 00:42:39,793 --> 00:42:41,361 Well, they didn't have that kind of stuff 962 00:42:41,394 --> 00:42:43,228 when we were growing up. 963 00:42:43,262 --> 00:42:44,797 Well, didn't you say that kid who lived down the street 964 00:42:44,830 --> 00:42:46,798 from you committed suicide when he was 17? 965 00:42:51,769 --> 00:42:52,870 Henry? 966 00:42:54,537 --> 00:42:57,373 Did you hear what I said? 967 00:42:57,406 --> 00:42:59,208 I-I mean I-I heard... 968 00:42:59,241 --> 00:43:02,310 You know what, you need to get your head out of that phone. 969 00:43:02,343 --> 00:43:03,544 [thumps] 970 00:43:03,578 --> 00:43:04,712 I'm goin' to bed. Good night. 971 00:43:10,817 --> 00:43:13,819 So Dad, how was your trip? 972 00:43:13,852 --> 00:43:15,353 Good, I hope. 973 00:43:15,387 --> 00:43:17,389 We'll know in a few weeks. 974 00:43:17,422 --> 00:43:19,891 Jessie, would you please put your napkin on your lap? 975 00:43:21,625 --> 00:43:25,661 Tim, really, I think it's time for a haircut. 976 00:43:25,695 --> 00:43:27,730 No. 977 00:43:27,763 --> 00:43:30,332 I get the whole rebel without a cause, 978 00:43:30,365 --> 00:43:33,301 but you're gonna have to get your hair cut, 979 00:43:33,334 --> 00:43:35,936 because you're starting to look like your mother. 980 00:43:35,969 --> 00:43:37,304 [chuckles] 981 00:43:37,337 --> 00:43:39,306 All right, who's got homework tonight? 982 00:43:39,339 --> 00:43:41,507 [Kyle] I've got a test tomorrow, but it's no big deal. 983 00:43:41,541 --> 00:43:42,875 What subject? 984 00:43:42,909 --> 00:43:44,876 Calculus. It's okay. I'll ace it. 985 00:43:44,910 --> 00:43:46,745 I hate math.Why? 986 00:43:46,778 --> 00:43:48,279 It's easy. 987 00:43:48,313 --> 00:43:50,380 It's useless. I hate it. 988 00:43:50,414 --> 00:43:51,581 Don't be an idiot. 989 00:43:51,615 --> 00:43:52,782 [Tim] You're an idiot. 990 00:43:52,816 --> 00:43:54,518 Only Idiots like math. 991 00:43:54,551 --> 00:43:56,885 What are you looking at, Jessie? 992 00:43:56,919 --> 00:43:58,721 This whole family sucks. 993 00:43:58,754 --> 00:44:00,488 You're the one who sucks. You'll never even graduate 994 00:44:00,522 --> 00:44:01,656 from high school. 995 00:44:01,689 --> 00:44:03,290 I don't care, you such a jerk. 996 00:44:03,324 --> 00:44:04,992 [Henry] Where are you going? You have not been excused. 997 00:44:05,026 --> 00:44:06,993 [Tim] You really think I'm stupid. My life sucks. 998 00:44:07,027 --> 00:44:09,029 [clatters] 999 00:44:09,062 --> 00:44:10,463 Kyle, did you have to say that? 1000 00:44:10,496 --> 00:44:11,797 So now it's my fault? 1001 00:44:11,831 --> 00:44:13,298 I didn't do anything. 1002 00:44:13,332 --> 00:44:15,500 [Tim yelling] I hate living here. 1003 00:44:15,534 --> 00:44:17,902 Dad, are you gonna let Tim get away with that? 1004 00:44:17,936 --> 00:44:19,637 [sighs] 1005 00:44:19,670 --> 00:44:22,605 I can't believe you guys.[clatters] 1006 00:44:22,639 --> 00:44:24,374 Kyle, please, sit down. 1007 00:44:24,407 --> 00:44:26,442 Kyle. 1008 00:44:26,475 --> 00:44:28,410 Kyle. 1009 00:44:28,444 --> 00:44:30,045 [Tim yelling] You all think I'm stupid 1010 00:44:30,078 --> 00:44:31,579 and I don't do anything right! 1011 00:44:31,612 --> 00:44:33,714 Can I watch TV? 1012 00:44:33,748 --> 00:44:36,316 Yes. No. 1013 00:44:36,350 --> 00:44:38,652 Yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1014 00:44:38,685 --> 00:44:39,986 [Tim yelling] 1015 00:44:40,019 --> 00:44:41,687 Go ahead, sport. Hey, yeah, thank you. 1016 00:44:41,720 --> 00:44:43,355 Clear your plate, please. 1017 00:44:46,057 --> 00:44:49,326 He's been like this all week while you've been gone. 1018 00:44:50,894 --> 00:44:54,697 He was fine when I left. 1019 00:44:54,730 --> 00:44:56,065 This is unacceptable. 1020 00:44:56,098 --> 00:44:57,566 I'm going upstairs to talk to him. 1021 00:44:57,599 --> 00:44:59,501 I think you should wait until he calms down. 1022 00:44:59,534 --> 00:45:01,435 I think he should calm down right now. 1023 00:45:05,973 --> 00:45:07,907 Tim, open this door right now! 1024 00:45:07,940 --> 00:45:10,076 [Tim] No, throw me out. 1025 00:45:10,109 --> 00:45:13,312 [Henry] Tim, your behavior's been completely inappropriate! 1026 00:45:13,345 --> 00:45:15,046 Oh, baby.[Tim yelling] Kyle is such an idiot! 1027 00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:17,915 Open this door now. Jessie, it's gonna be okay. 1028 00:45:17,948 --> 00:45:19,850 [voices muffled] 1029 00:45:30,692 --> 00:45:33,360 [music playing in headset] 1030 00:46:05,119 --> 00:46:07,754 [no audio] 1031 00:46:38,811 --> 00:46:40,679 I can't take it anymore. 1032 00:46:40,712 --> 00:46:42,047 Okay, look! He eventually he calms down. 1033 00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:43,882 If you just leave him alone, Henry. 1034 00:46:43,915 --> 00:46:45,383 Just leave him alone. 1035 00:46:45,416 --> 00:46:47,117 This must be advice coming from the therapist. 1036 00:46:47,151 --> 00:46:48,952 Just ignore it, right? 1037 00:46:48,986 --> 00:46:51,755 Look, she says there's no use in trying to talk to him 1038 00:46:51,788 --> 00:46:53,489 when he's irrational like this, okay? 1039 00:46:53,522 --> 00:46:55,524 It'll just escalate the situation. 1040 00:46:55,558 --> 00:46:57,892 It'll just escalate, right. 1041 00:46:57,925 --> 00:47:00,728 Just if we ignore it. Don't do anything. 1042 00:47:00,762 --> 00:47:03,830 [yells] There's gotta be something we can do. 1043 00:47:03,864 --> 00:47:06,399 I'm going crazy here. 1044 00:47:06,432 --> 00:47:08,534 All right. The psychiatrist did give me 1045 00:47:08,568 --> 00:47:10,535 another medication to use. 1046 00:47:10,569 --> 00:47:12,971 All right, when he gets out of control like this. 1047 00:47:13,004 --> 00:47:14,172 Well, that's good news. 1048 00:47:14,205 --> 00:47:15,573 Yes. Another medication. 1049 00:47:15,606 --> 00:47:16,807 Mm-hmm.Have you tried it yet? 1050 00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:18,441 No, I have not. 1051 00:47:18,475 --> 00:47:19,709 Well, it might be a damn good time to try it. 1052 00:47:19,742 --> 00:47:21,110 Okay. I will, Henry. 1053 00:47:25,181 --> 00:47:27,715 ♪ 1054 00:47:30,451 --> 00:47:33,187 [Therapist] I recommend that we take him off the escitalopram 1055 00:47:33,220 --> 00:47:35,154 and put him on a mood stabilizer. 1056 00:47:35,188 --> 00:47:37,090 [Catherine] A mood stabilizer? 1057 00:47:37,123 --> 00:47:38,857 [Therapist] Based on what you're describing, 1058 00:47:38,891 --> 00:47:41,559 I would have to say that your son has bipolar disorder. 1059 00:47:45,062 --> 00:47:46,430 Bipolar. 1060 00:47:46,463 --> 00:47:48,665 That sounds pretty extreme. 1061 00:47:48,699 --> 00:47:49,866 I mean, isn't that a condition 1062 00:47:49,900 --> 00:47:52,435 that requires heavy medication? 1063 00:47:52,468 --> 00:47:54,636 Doesn't that connote serious highs and lows? 1064 00:47:54,669 --> 00:47:56,538 I mean, Tim is never happy. 1065 00:47:56,571 --> 00:47:58,472 I know. 1066 00:47:58,506 --> 00:48:00,774 I never liked that doctor, ever. 1067 00:48:00,808 --> 00:48:02,109 Well, what does Slater say? 1068 00:48:02,142 --> 00:48:05,111 Well, she says he's really complicated. 1069 00:48:05,144 --> 00:48:07,046 She's not sure about bipolar though. 1070 00:48:07,079 --> 00:48:09,047 Well, maybe it's time for another opinion. 1071 00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:11,883 It's funny you should say that, 1072 00:48:11,917 --> 00:48:13,884 because I've been trying to get an appointment 1073 00:48:13,918 --> 00:48:16,120 with another psychiatrist, but it's three months. 1074 00:48:16,153 --> 00:48:18,021 Three months. You've gotta be kidding me? 1075 00:48:18,054 --> 00:48:20,656 Yeah, apparently there's more taxidermists in the country 1076 00:48:20,689 --> 00:48:22,658 then there are child psychiatrists. 1077 00:48:22,691 --> 00:48:24,893 Well, cheery future for our children. 1078 00:48:24,927 --> 00:48:26,928 Here take a look at this. 1079 00:48:26,961 --> 00:48:28,129 [sighs] 1080 00:48:28,162 --> 00:48:29,563 She's highly recommended. 1081 00:48:29,596 --> 00:48:32,933 She's supposed to be top in her field. 1082 00:48:32,966 --> 00:48:34,600 She's really expensive though. 1083 00:48:34,634 --> 00:48:37,469 Well, we're gonna do whatever we need to do. 1084 00:48:40,805 --> 00:48:44,575 Thank you. 1085 00:48:44,608 --> 00:48:46,810 Thank you. Thanks Tim, for being so honest. 1086 00:48:46,844 --> 00:48:49,779 Anything else you want to talk about? 1087 00:48:49,812 --> 00:48:51,113 No, I'm good.All right. 1088 00:48:51,147 --> 00:48:52,681 Do you mind if I speak 1089 00:48:52,714 --> 00:48:54,249 to your parents alone for just a moment? 1090 00:48:54,282 --> 00:48:55,650 Sure, whatever. 1091 00:48:55,684 --> 00:48:58,253 Okay, would you ask them to come in? 1092 00:48:58,286 --> 00:48:59,720 I will see you next week. 1093 00:48:59,754 --> 00:49:01,621 Thanks.You're welcome. 1094 00:49:08,260 --> 00:49:09,594 Hi.Hi. 1095 00:49:09,627 --> 00:49:11,263 So how did it go? 1096 00:49:11,296 --> 00:49:13,798 It went. How are you? 1097 00:49:13,831 --> 00:49:17,500 Well, we just don't know what to do anymore. 1098 00:49:17,533 --> 00:49:19,802 At this rate, he's going to have a difficult time 1099 00:49:19,835 --> 00:49:21,503 finishing high school. 1100 00:49:21,537 --> 00:49:22,938 You know what, there are worse things 1101 00:49:22,972 --> 00:49:24,072 than not going to school. 1102 00:49:26,307 --> 00:49:28,276 So can you describe what it looks like 1103 00:49:28,309 --> 00:49:31,611 when Tim gets upset. 1104 00:49:31,644 --> 00:49:35,114 Okay, his eyes change. 1105 00:49:35,147 --> 00:49:37,749 Like he becomes a different person. 1106 00:49:37,783 --> 00:49:39,718 He's irrational. 1107 00:49:39,751 --> 00:49:44,121 And he misinterprets everything that we say. 1108 00:49:44,154 --> 00:49:46,890 Sometimes he can get violent. 1109 00:49:46,923 --> 00:49:48,524 But he doesn't... 1110 00:49:48,557 --> 00:49:50,126 No, he's never hurt anyone. 1111 00:49:50,159 --> 00:49:53,128 And I don't think he would, 1112 00:49:53,161 --> 00:49:54,829 but he threatens to, 1113 00:49:54,862 --> 00:50:00,301 and he breaks a lot of things. 1114 00:50:00,334 --> 00:50:03,869 It's hard. And how long do these episodes last? 1115 00:50:03,903 --> 00:50:05,838 How often do they come and when they do come... 1116 00:50:05,871 --> 00:50:07,239 It varies. 1117 00:50:07,272 --> 00:50:09,140 Yeah, it can happen several times a day. 1118 00:50:09,173 --> 00:50:10,541 It can last for hours. 1119 00:50:10,574 --> 00:50:12,876 Just depends. 1120 00:50:12,910 --> 00:50:17,880 I think the hardest part for me is when the rage is over. 1121 00:50:17,914 --> 00:50:19,248 And he says he feels so terrible 1122 00:50:19,281 --> 00:50:23,952 and he talks about dying. 1123 00:50:23,985 --> 00:50:25,153 It's scary. 1124 00:50:25,186 --> 00:50:26,921 He's not a bad kid. 1125 00:50:26,954 --> 00:50:30,190 He's the sweetest kindest boy. 1126 00:50:32,992 --> 00:50:34,193 Well, he still is, Catherine. 1127 00:50:34,227 --> 00:50:35,661 He's a great boy, 1128 00:50:35,694 --> 00:50:39,097 and, I mean he doesn't wanna misbehave. 1129 00:50:39,131 --> 00:50:41,232 He's in pain. 1130 00:50:41,265 --> 00:50:43,800 I mean, I just noticed it in my sessions with him, 1131 00:50:43,834 --> 00:50:46,236 his moods change rapidly. 1132 00:50:46,269 --> 00:50:48,138 He has a very high anxiety level. 1133 00:50:48,171 --> 00:50:49,805 And he knows that he can't predict it, 1134 00:50:49,839 --> 00:50:51,240 he can't control it. 1135 00:50:51,273 --> 00:50:52,807 So he doesn't want to go anywhere. 1136 00:50:52,841 --> 00:50:54,308 He doesn't want to leave the house. 1137 00:50:54,342 --> 00:50:55,743 I mean, that's gotta be scary. 1138 00:50:55,776 --> 00:50:58,078 Especially for a teenager. 1139 00:50:58,111 --> 00:51:00,180 I-I don't understand, doctor, 1140 00:51:00,213 --> 00:51:04,283 this poor child is taking up to 30 pills a day, 1141 00:51:04,316 --> 00:51:06,818 and he seems to be getting worse and worse. 1142 00:51:06,852 --> 00:51:10,755 Now, there's gotta be some medication out there 1143 00:51:10,788 --> 00:51:13,090 that can fix all this. 1144 00:51:13,123 --> 00:51:14,824 You would think, you would think that. 1145 00:51:14,858 --> 00:51:16,660 There is no magic pill. 1146 00:51:16,693 --> 00:51:18,027 And everyone reacts differently 1147 00:51:18,061 --> 00:51:20,328 to every different medication. 1148 00:51:20,362 --> 00:51:22,230 So you don't know. Especially with children 1149 00:51:22,264 --> 00:51:25,733 and teenagers because they're always growing and changing. 1150 00:51:25,767 --> 00:51:29,369 Well, I understand that, but there's gotta be something more. 1151 00:51:29,402 --> 00:51:32,605 Timothy has an illness. 1152 00:51:32,638 --> 00:51:34,874 Do you really understand that? 1153 00:51:34,907 --> 00:51:37,175 I think that he would thrive 1154 00:51:37,208 --> 00:51:39,944 in a highly structured environment. 1155 00:51:39,978 --> 00:51:41,779 What do you mean? 1156 00:51:41,812 --> 00:51:43,847 Well, I mean you've said yourself, 1157 00:51:43,881 --> 00:51:45,348 the slightest change in schedule, 1158 00:51:45,382 --> 00:51:47,216 or disappointment can throw him off. 1159 00:51:47,249 --> 00:51:50,085 But I'm trying so hard to do everything right. 1160 00:51:50,118 --> 00:51:51,620 You did that, Catherine. 1161 00:51:51,653 --> 00:51:53,154 I give a structure. I work really hard. 1162 00:51:53,188 --> 00:51:55,022 Catherine, it's humanly impossible for you 1163 00:51:55,055 --> 00:51:56,356 to provide the kind of structure 1164 00:51:56,390 --> 00:51:58,192 in your home that he needs. 1165 00:51:58,225 --> 00:52:01,194 He needs a therapeutic environment. 1166 00:52:01,227 --> 00:52:03,296 He needs to be surrounded by professionals 1167 00:52:03,329 --> 00:52:07,232 who can help him 24 hours a day. 1168 00:52:07,265 --> 00:52:12,002 So what is it that you're suggesting, doctor? 1169 00:52:12,035 --> 00:52:16,139 I know a wonderful residential treatment center in Maine. 1170 00:52:16,172 --> 00:52:17,740 I know people that have gone there. 1171 00:52:17,773 --> 00:52:19,174 They specialize in fragile boys, 1172 00:52:19,208 --> 00:52:20,375 just like Tim. 1173 00:52:20,409 --> 00:52:21,810 Okay, excuse me. 1174 00:52:21,843 --> 00:52:23,812 I'm not sending my son away, okay? 1175 00:52:23,845 --> 00:52:25,646 He's already in a therapeutic day program 1176 00:52:25,679 --> 00:52:26,980 through the school district. 1177 00:52:27,014 --> 00:52:28,681 Isn't that enough? 1178 00:52:28,715 --> 00:52:30,717 Listen, I know it's upsetting to hear about this, 1179 00:52:30,750 --> 00:52:33,719 but there is just no way that you are capable 1180 00:52:33,752 --> 00:52:36,822 of providing the kind of structure that he needs. 1181 00:52:36,855 --> 00:52:38,423 Okay, but we have come to you for help 1182 00:52:38,456 --> 00:52:41,025 and now you're telling me that your solution 1183 00:52:41,058 --> 00:52:43,092 is to send him away? 1184 00:52:43,126 --> 00:52:44,728 Catherine.That's not acceptable. 1185 00:52:44,761 --> 00:52:45,929 Catherine, it's just-- 1186 00:52:45,962 --> 00:52:47,196 I can do better. I'm his mother. 1187 00:52:47,230 --> 00:52:48,397 No one knows him like I do 1188 00:52:48,431 --> 00:52:49,832 and I am the one who's supposed 1189 00:52:49,865 --> 00:52:51,033 to help him, Henry. 1190 00:52:51,066 --> 00:52:52,234 And no one's debating that. 1191 00:52:52,267 --> 00:52:53,768 I've been doing it for years. 1192 00:52:53,801 --> 00:52:55,736 Let's just hear the doctor.Okay, I'm sorry. 1193 00:52:55,769 --> 00:52:57,003 Just stay for a second, please. 1194 00:52:57,037 --> 00:52:58,271 No, I'm not gonna talk about it. 1195 00:52:58,304 --> 00:52:59,672 Just hear her out, please. 1196 00:52:59,705 --> 00:53:00,973 Catherine, I can explain to you 1197 00:53:01,006 --> 00:53:03,108 Can we, please? 1198 00:53:03,142 --> 00:53:04,176 It's a lot to think about. 1199 00:53:04,209 --> 00:53:06,310 Yeah. 1200 00:53:06,344 --> 00:53:08,946 Let me ask you something? 1201 00:53:08,979 --> 00:53:13,316 If this was your son, what would you do? 1202 00:53:15,117 --> 00:53:17,053 It's hard, yeah, 1203 00:53:17,086 --> 00:53:20,121 but I think if Tim were my son, 1204 00:53:20,155 --> 00:53:22,823 without a doubt 1205 00:53:22,857 --> 00:53:24,324 I would, 1206 00:53:24,358 --> 00:53:26,760 I'd put him into the residential treatment center. 1207 00:53:26,793 --> 00:53:28,995 And how long are we talking about? 1208 00:53:29,028 --> 00:53:30,863 And what are the costs? 1209 00:53:30,896 --> 00:53:32,998 Well, it's about a year and it's expensive. 1210 00:53:33,031 --> 00:53:34,332 It's in the six figures. 1211 00:53:34,366 --> 00:53:35,933 It's not nothing. 1212 00:54:15,998 --> 00:54:17,232 Here we are, honey. 1213 00:54:17,265 --> 00:54:19,201 Wait here and I'll go get Tim, okay? 1214 00:54:19,234 --> 00:54:20,835 Stay right here, baby. 1215 00:54:25,839 --> 00:54:27,107 That's really excellent. 1216 00:54:32,544 --> 00:54:35,179 Hi, my name is Catherine Spencer. 1217 00:54:35,213 --> 00:54:37,348 Nice to meet you. Hold on just a minute. 1218 00:54:37,381 --> 00:54:40,050 Tim, your mom's here for you. 1219 00:54:40,083 --> 00:54:41,284 So what do you think? 1220 00:54:41,318 --> 00:54:42,919 I think maybe it's their time to play? 1221 00:54:42,952 --> 00:54:45,221 But I want to play. It's not fair. 1222 00:54:45,254 --> 00:54:48,156 Hey Mom, I don't belong here. 1223 00:54:48,189 --> 00:54:49,357 I want to go home. 1224 00:54:49,390 --> 00:54:50,791 Okay, baby, come on. 1225 00:54:50,825 --> 00:54:52,192 Let's go home. 1226 00:54:52,226 --> 00:54:53,327 Let's go. 1227 00:54:56,129 --> 00:54:57,230 It's okay. 1228 00:55:02,935 --> 00:55:04,736 Maybe Dr. Harris is right. 1229 00:55:06,470 --> 00:55:08,405 About what? 1230 00:55:08,439 --> 00:55:10,406 I don't know, Henry. 1231 00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:13,409 But I'm scared. 1232 00:55:13,443 --> 00:55:15,177 He's not getting better. 1233 00:55:15,210 --> 00:55:19,013 He struggles every day, and this school is worse. 1234 00:55:19,047 --> 00:55:20,548 I'm trying to help him, 1235 00:55:20,581 --> 00:55:23,250 but I think Dr. Harris is right. 1236 00:55:23,283 --> 00:55:25,885 He needs more help than I can give him. 1237 00:55:25,918 --> 00:55:27,253 [Henry] What are you saying, Sweetheart? 1238 00:55:27,286 --> 00:55:31,357 If we do this, I know it's gonna be expensive, 1239 00:55:31,390 --> 00:55:34,825 okay, but maybe we borrow money from my parents 1240 00:55:34,859 --> 00:55:36,427 or-or-or I'll get a job, 1241 00:55:36,461 --> 00:55:38,395 we could sell the house. 1242 00:55:39,563 --> 00:55:41,097 We have to do something. 1243 00:55:43,332 --> 00:55:45,000 We don't have another choice. 1244 00:55:45,033 --> 00:55:49,471 How in the world are we going to tell him? 1245 00:55:49,504 --> 00:55:51,038 I don't know. 1246 00:55:53,607 --> 00:55:57,243 You sure about this? 1247 00:55:57,277 --> 00:55:58,478 No. 1248 00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:02,847 What do you think? 1249 00:56:05,416 --> 00:56:08,919 Kyle, come here. You didn't say good-bye. 1250 00:56:08,952 --> 00:56:10,153 I love you, honey. 1251 00:56:10,187 --> 00:56:11,554 Mom, I'll be gone for the weekend. 1252 00:56:11,588 --> 00:56:13,956 It's a debate tournament, not boot camp. 1253 00:56:13,990 --> 00:56:15,357 I know. Listen, good luck. 1254 00:56:15,391 --> 00:56:16,558 You're gonna be great. 1255 00:56:16,592 --> 00:56:17,959 All right. Thanks, Mom. 1256 00:56:17,993 --> 00:56:19,160 Bye. Bye-bye. 1257 00:56:19,194 --> 00:56:20,895 Hey, that looks fun. 1258 00:56:20,928 --> 00:56:23,297 God, you're so annoying. 1259 00:56:23,330 --> 00:56:25,331 Made me forget what I was writing. 1260 00:56:25,364 --> 00:56:26,833 You ruined it. 1261 00:56:26,866 --> 00:56:29,001 Tim, why did you do that? 1262 00:56:29,034 --> 00:56:30,402 It was horrible. Jessie came over 1263 00:56:30,435 --> 00:56:31,603 and messed me up. 1264 00:56:31,636 --> 00:56:33,004 It's okay. Just calm down. 1265 00:56:33,037 --> 00:56:34,238 There's no reason to get upset. 1266 00:56:34,271 --> 00:56:35,940 I hate you. You've ruined everything, 1267 00:56:35,973 --> 00:56:37,140 Tim, let's just-- 1268 00:56:37,174 --> 00:56:38,374 I hate you. 1269 00:56:38,408 --> 00:56:40,076 You were right. You were right. 1270 00:56:40,110 --> 00:56:41,511 Here. Tim. 1271 00:56:41,544 --> 00:56:43,278 Jessie, he didn't mean to distract you. 1272 00:56:43,312 --> 00:56:44,546 Why do you always take his side? 1273 00:56:44,579 --> 00:56:46,348 You're such a stupid bitch. 1274 00:56:46,381 --> 00:56:48,950 [objects breaking] 1275 00:56:48,983 --> 00:56:50,851 Okay, Jessie, you need to go upstairs. 1276 00:56:50,884 --> 00:56:52,119 Okay, honey. 1277 00:56:52,152 --> 00:56:53,586 Okay, remember what we talked about? 1278 00:56:53,620 --> 00:56:55,021 You go on upstairs. 1279 00:56:55,054 --> 00:56:56,623 Why are you guys always talking about me? 1280 00:56:56,656 --> 00:56:58,624 Now listen, Jessie did not mean to distract you. 1281 00:56:58,657 --> 00:57:00,025 and you know that. 1282 00:57:00,058 --> 00:57:01,226 How do you know that? 1283 00:57:01,259 --> 00:57:02,527 You were too busy hugging Kyle. 1284 00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:04,128 Listen to me, you need to calm down. 1285 00:57:04,161 --> 00:57:05,329 [yelling] I hate you. No. Tim! 1286 00:57:05,362 --> 00:57:07,431 Get off of me. I will kill all of you. 1287 00:57:07,464 --> 00:57:09,165 Tim. I will kill myself. 1288 00:57:09,198 --> 00:57:10,333 Oh, Tim. 1289 00:57:10,366 --> 00:57:11,534 Listen. Look at me. 1290 00:57:11,567 --> 00:57:13,402 I'll kill you. No. 1291 00:57:13,436 --> 00:57:14,937 I'll kill you! 1292 00:57:14,970 --> 00:57:16,138 No, sweetheart. 1293 00:57:16,171 --> 00:57:17,305 I hate you! Tim, listen. 1294 00:57:17,339 --> 00:57:19,373 I'll kill you. 1295 00:57:19,406 --> 00:57:23,043 [Tim yelling] You're locked in, right? You're locked in. 1296 00:57:23,076 --> 00:57:26,446 You're locked in. 1297 00:57:26,479 --> 00:57:28,480 ♪ 1298 00:57:42,258 --> 00:57:45,160 [no audio] 1299 00:58:17,185 --> 00:58:19,019 [Tim] I'm so sorry. 1300 00:58:19,052 --> 00:58:22,422 [Catherine] I know it. I know it. 1301 00:58:22,455 --> 00:58:24,256 I know you didn't mean it. 1302 00:58:24,290 --> 00:58:26,025 [Tim] I don't know why I said these things. 1303 00:58:26,058 --> 00:58:27,993 [Catherine] It's okay. I'm okay. 1304 00:58:28,026 --> 00:58:29,928 [Tim] I'm such a horrible person. 1305 00:58:29,961 --> 00:58:32,397 [Catherine] No, no, you're not a horrible person. 1306 00:58:32,430 --> 00:58:35,665 No, don't say that. 1307 00:58:35,699 --> 00:58:40,003 You're not bad, baby, okay? 1308 00:58:40,036 --> 00:58:42,437 We're going to help you. 1309 00:59:18,198 --> 00:59:19,499 Tim. 1310 00:59:19,533 --> 00:59:22,636 Tim, sweetie? Wake up. 1311 00:59:22,669 --> 00:59:24,070 Mom, what happened? 1312 00:59:24,103 --> 00:59:25,271 Sweetie. Something wrong? 1313 00:59:25,304 --> 00:59:26,438 Do you remember when you said 1314 00:59:26,471 --> 00:59:29,107 that you needed help, honey? 1315 00:59:29,141 --> 00:59:32,009 Okay, so you could feel better? 1316 00:59:32,043 --> 00:59:33,210 Your dad and I found a place 1317 00:59:33,244 --> 00:59:34,411 that will help you. 1318 00:59:34,445 --> 00:59:36,579 No, mom. I'm doing better now. 1319 00:59:36,612 --> 00:59:39,348 Honey, you're gonna be home before you know it. 1320 00:59:39,381 --> 00:59:41,450 What do you mean? 1321 00:59:41,483 --> 00:59:44,118 It's only until you feel better, okay? 1322 00:59:44,152 --> 00:59:45,619 No, Mom, please. 1323 00:59:45,653 --> 00:59:47,288 You said you'd always be there for me. 1324 00:59:47,321 --> 00:59:50,523 And I am always here for you, okay? 1325 00:59:50,557 --> 00:59:52,224 You've gotta trust me.Please, Mom. 1326 00:59:52,258 --> 00:59:54,360 Okay?I begging you. 1327 00:59:54,393 --> 00:59:55,994 Don't do this to me. 1328 00:59:56,027 --> 00:59:57,195 It's okay. 1329 00:59:57,228 --> 00:59:58,763 Dad, please, don't send me away. 1330 00:59:58,796 --> 01:00:00,765 Tim, your mom and I love you more than anything. 1331 01:00:00,798 --> 01:00:02,166 This is such a hard decision. 1332 01:00:02,199 --> 01:00:03,533 It's the best thing for you, though. 1333 01:00:03,567 --> 01:00:05,269 You don't care about what's best for me. 1334 01:00:05,302 --> 01:00:06,469 You just want to get rid of me. 1335 01:00:06,502 --> 01:00:07,703 No, Tim.That's all. 1336 01:00:07,736 --> 01:00:09,104 Stop it.You hate me. 1337 01:00:09,137 --> 01:00:10,338 Tim, that's not true. Stop it. 1338 01:00:10,372 --> 01:00:12,374 I'm sorry. [thumps] 1339 01:00:12,407 --> 01:00:14,642 [crying] I'm sorry. 1340 01:00:14,676 --> 01:00:16,043 I love you. 1341 01:00:16,077 --> 01:00:17,644 I can't do this. 1342 01:00:17,678 --> 01:00:19,646 I'm sorry for everything. I'm sorry for everything. 1343 01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:22,248 [Henry] Tim, come on. 1344 01:00:22,282 --> 01:00:25,384 Please, Mommy. 1345 01:00:25,417 --> 01:00:27,652 Please, don't send me away. 1346 01:00:27,686 --> 01:00:31,689 [screaming] Mom! Mom! 1347 01:00:31,722 --> 01:00:33,724 Don't just fucking walk away from me 1348 01:00:33,757 --> 01:00:35,258 when I'm talking to you! 1349 01:02:36,385 --> 01:02:37,552 [thumps, shatters] 1350 01:02:37,586 --> 01:02:39,654 Ah! 1351 01:02:46,593 --> 01:02:49,161 [sobbing] 1352 01:03:00,837 --> 01:03:04,240 I'm so sorry. 1353 01:03:24,923 --> 01:03:27,625 [screaming sobs] 1354 01:03:27,658 --> 01:03:29,459 Bye, Harry. Thanks for the ride. 1355 01:03:29,492 --> 01:03:30,861 [door shuts] Mom, I'm home. 1356 01:03:33,463 --> 01:03:37,599 Mom, are you okay? What happened? 1357 01:03:37,633 --> 01:03:39,667 No, I-I'm-I'm fine. 1358 01:03:39,700 --> 01:03:42,202 What happened? 1359 01:03:42,236 --> 01:03:45,239 Did Tim do something? 1360 01:03:45,272 --> 01:03:47,340 Your father will be down in a minute. 1361 01:03:47,373 --> 01:03:50,676 Mom, what happened? What did he do? 1362 01:03:50,709 --> 01:03:53,711 He needs help. He just needs help. 1363 01:03:53,745 --> 01:03:55,279 We didn't know what to do. 1364 01:03:55,312 --> 01:03:57,348 Mom, where's Tim? 1365 01:03:57,381 --> 01:03:59,616 Where is he, Mom? 1366 01:03:59,650 --> 01:04:01,651 Baby, this will help. 1367 01:04:01,684 --> 01:04:02,885 What the hell have you done 1368 01:04:02,918 --> 01:04:04,487 to my brother? 1369 01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:06,255 We had no choice. 1370 01:04:06,288 --> 01:04:07,456 Your brother needs help. 1371 01:04:07,489 --> 01:04:08,657 What he needs are parents 1372 01:04:08,690 --> 01:04:09,824 who know how to handle him. 1373 01:04:09,858 --> 01:04:12,560 Why didn't you try harder? 1374 01:04:12,593 --> 01:04:13,894 [yelling] Where is my brother? 1375 01:04:13,927 --> 01:04:15,362 He's in Maine. 1376 01:04:15,395 --> 01:04:16,696 He's in Maine. 1377 01:04:16,729 --> 01:04:18,430 He wasn't going to school, okay? 1378 01:04:18,464 --> 01:04:21,267 That's because youdidn't make him go. 1379 01:04:21,300 --> 01:04:22,701 What kind of mother lets her kid get away 1380 01:04:22,734 --> 01:04:23,902 with shit like that? 1381 01:04:23,935 --> 01:04:27,604 Now Kyle, Kyle! That is not fair. 1382 01:04:27,637 --> 01:04:32,541 Your brother has bipolar disorder. 1383 01:04:32,575 --> 01:04:35,210 Look, baby. 1384 01:04:35,243 --> 01:04:37,612 We're gonna get through this, okay? 1385 01:04:37,645 --> 01:04:39,647 I promise, honey. 1386 01:04:39,681 --> 01:04:41,448 We're gonna get through it. 1387 01:04:41,482 --> 01:04:42,649 [rattling] 1388 01:04:42,683 --> 01:04:43,784 Bullshit. 1389 01:04:47,987 --> 01:04:49,554 [door slams] 1390 01:04:57,928 --> 01:04:59,496 Catherine? 1391 01:04:59,529 --> 01:05:01,731 Baby? 1392 01:05:01,764 --> 01:05:03,399 Mom. 1393 01:05:03,432 --> 01:05:05,301 I know.You're here. 1394 01:05:05,334 --> 01:05:08,003 Oh, of course I'm here. 1395 01:05:08,036 --> 01:05:09,604 It's been so hard. 1396 01:05:09,637 --> 01:05:11,706 Oh, I'm so sorry. 1397 01:05:11,739 --> 01:05:15,241 I love you. 1398 01:05:15,274 --> 01:05:18,211 Oh, you couldn't keep me away, darlin'. 1399 01:05:22,614 --> 01:05:24,315 Hey, buddy, you okay? 1400 01:05:27,318 --> 01:05:28,685 Wanna come in? 1401 01:05:37,025 --> 01:05:40,694 Are you mad at Mom and Dad? 1402 01:05:40,728 --> 01:05:41,895 I don't know. 1403 01:05:41,929 --> 01:05:45,565 You? 1404 01:05:45,598 --> 01:05:47,433 I don't know. 1405 01:05:47,466 --> 01:05:48,867 Tim didn't like me anyway. 1406 01:05:48,900 --> 01:05:50,268 Hey, that's not true. 1407 01:05:50,301 --> 01:05:51,469 Don't say that. 1408 01:05:55,372 --> 01:05:57,574 Hi, guys. 1409 01:05:57,607 --> 01:05:58,942 Can I join you? 1410 01:05:58,975 --> 01:06:00,543 I guess. 1411 01:06:00,576 --> 01:06:01,710 I know this has all been 1412 01:06:01,744 --> 01:06:04,579 really difficult for you guys. 1413 01:06:04,612 --> 01:06:05,780 And I just want you to know 1414 01:06:05,813 --> 01:06:07,349 that you mom and I love you 1415 01:06:07,382 --> 01:06:09,450 more than anything. 1416 01:06:09,483 --> 01:06:11,017 All three of you. 1417 01:06:11,051 --> 01:06:12,719 Your brother has an illness 1418 01:06:12,753 --> 01:06:14,754 and it's nobody's fault. 1419 01:06:14,787 --> 01:06:16,589 [Jessie] Is it contagious? 1420 01:06:16,622 --> 01:06:18,657 No. 1421 01:06:18,690 --> 01:06:22,660 It's not contagious, buddy. 1422 01:06:22,693 --> 01:06:28,631 No, Tim has a chemical imbalance in his brain, 1423 01:06:28,665 --> 01:06:31,868 that makes it harder, you know, for him 1424 01:06:31,901 --> 01:06:35,470 to do things that are easy 1425 01:06:35,503 --> 01:06:37,438 for the rest of us. 1426 01:06:37,472 --> 01:06:39,306 What's it called again? 1427 01:06:42,075 --> 01:06:43,743 Bipolar disorder. 1428 01:07:05,359 --> 01:07:07,028 [knocks] James? 1429 01:07:07,061 --> 01:07:08,929 Here's Tim. 1430 01:07:08,962 --> 01:07:10,864 Hey, Tim. Come on in. 1431 01:07:10,898 --> 01:07:12,932 Thanks, Asher, we're good. 1432 01:07:16,135 --> 01:07:19,070 Oh, don't worry. Rocket is very friendly. 1433 01:07:19,104 --> 01:07:20,906 Dogs understand people better than we do. 1434 01:07:20,939 --> 01:07:22,039 Sit down. 1435 01:07:26,676 --> 01:07:31,614 So Tim, tell me, how'd you get here? 1436 01:07:31,647 --> 01:07:34,116 By force. 1437 01:07:34,149 --> 01:07:35,783 Is that so? 1438 01:07:35,817 --> 01:07:37,484 I'm being punished. 1439 01:07:37,518 --> 01:07:38,685 My parents hate me. 1440 01:07:38,719 --> 01:07:40,821 Really? 1441 01:07:40,854 --> 01:07:42,488 Why do you think that? 1442 01:07:42,522 --> 01:07:43,789 Why? 1443 01:07:43,823 --> 01:07:45,024 Don't youhave all the answers? 1444 01:07:45,057 --> 01:07:47,892 [chuckles] 1445 01:07:47,926 --> 01:07:49,861 Wouldn't that be easy. 1446 01:07:52,563 --> 01:07:53,997 You sound angry. 1447 01:07:54,031 --> 01:07:56,833 I don't belong here. 1448 01:07:56,866 --> 01:07:58,968 Well... [sighs] 1449 01:07:59,001 --> 01:08:01,570 since you are here, 1450 01:08:01,603 --> 01:08:04,372 let's see if we can make the best of things, okay? 1451 01:08:04,405 --> 01:08:05,773 Whatever. 1452 01:08:05,806 --> 01:08:07,407 You know, being here will help you, 1453 01:08:07,442 --> 01:08:08,608 if you let it. 1454 01:08:08,642 --> 01:08:10,009 There's nothing wrong with me. 1455 01:08:10,044 --> 01:08:11,878 You're not here because there's something 1456 01:08:11,911 --> 01:08:13,079 wrong with you, 1457 01:08:13,112 --> 01:08:14,747 because your parents hate you. 1458 01:08:14,780 --> 01:08:16,749 Let me show you around, okay? 1459 01:08:16,782 --> 01:08:18,750 We only have three rules, and they're designed 1460 01:08:18,783 --> 01:08:20,452 to keep everyone safe. 1461 01:08:20,485 --> 01:08:22,453 You can't feel good if you don't feel safe. 1462 01:08:22,486 --> 01:08:23,954 So the first rule is that someone needs to know 1463 01:08:23,987 --> 01:08:25,956 where you are at all times. 1464 01:08:25,989 --> 01:08:28,591 That means if you need to go anywhere, even to the bathroom, 1465 01:08:28,624 --> 01:08:30,826 you gotta ask an adult for permission. Got it? 1466 01:08:30,860 --> 01:08:31,826 Seriously? 1467 01:08:31,860 --> 01:08:33,862 What is this, jail? 1468 01:08:33,895 --> 01:08:36,697 We can't keep you safe if we don't know where you are. 1469 01:08:36,730 --> 01:08:38,899 The second rule is hands off. 1470 01:08:38,932 --> 01:08:40,767 [boys arguing]No touching other students. 1471 01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:43,435 No wrestling, no poking, nothing... 1472 01:08:43,469 --> 01:08:45,904 guys, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, hey, hey. 1473 01:08:45,937 --> 01:08:47,472 Who's hat is it?It's my hat. 1474 01:08:47,505 --> 01:08:49,474 It's his hat. Why you have his hat? 1475 01:08:49,507 --> 01:08:50,875 I just, I can't--He's just jokin'. 1476 01:08:50,908 --> 01:08:52,076 He's just jokin'. Let's go. 1477 01:08:52,109 --> 01:08:54,411 Toss it to me. There he is. 1478 01:08:54,444 --> 01:08:55,545 Nice. 1479 01:08:58,681 --> 01:08:59,848 A lot of kids misinterpret 1480 01:08:59,882 --> 01:09:01,116 joking around as aggression. 1481 01:09:01,149 --> 01:09:02,750 So what's the third rule? 1482 01:09:02,784 --> 01:09:04,185 Until you reach the level of independence 1483 01:09:04,218 --> 01:09:05,887 you cannot go beyond the property line 1484 01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:07,821 without an adult. 1485 01:09:07,854 --> 01:09:09,556 Where is everyone? 1486 01:09:09,590 --> 01:09:10,957 They're on their way back from school. 1487 01:09:10,991 --> 01:09:12,525 Don't worry, we don't let anybody 1488 01:09:12,558 --> 01:09:13,793 go to school for the first couple of weeks. 1489 01:09:13,826 --> 01:09:15,194 You won't go till you ask for it. 1490 01:09:15,227 --> 01:09:16,595 [chuckles] Think that's gonna happen. 1491 01:09:16,628 --> 01:09:17,996 Oh, it will. Trust me, 1492 01:09:18,029 --> 01:09:19,663 after hanging out here for a couple of weeks 1493 01:09:19,697 --> 01:09:20,931 with nothin' to do, 1494 01:09:20,964 --> 01:09:22,566 my bet is you'll be beggin' to go. 1495 01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:24,101 You'll like it. The classes are small. 1496 01:09:24,134 --> 01:09:25,502 Teachers are pretty cool. 1497 01:09:25,535 --> 01:09:26,769 All your friends will be there. 1498 01:09:26,803 --> 01:09:28,770 Friends. I don't have any friends. 1499 01:09:28,804 --> 01:09:29,905 That'll change. 1500 01:09:34,242 --> 01:09:36,711 And this is the common room. 1501 01:09:36,744 --> 01:09:38,078 Where you guys will hang out, 1502 01:09:38,112 --> 01:09:40,446 play games, 1503 01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:41,981 write letters to your family. 1504 01:09:42,015 --> 01:09:43,549 Write letters? 1505 01:09:43,582 --> 01:09:45,684 Can I just email? 1506 01:09:45,718 --> 01:09:47,585 We don't have computers here. 1507 01:09:47,619 --> 01:09:49,621 Just a school for school work. 1508 01:09:49,654 --> 01:09:51,055 And no cell phones. 1509 01:09:51,088 --> 01:09:52,856 What? 1510 01:09:52,889 --> 01:09:54,825 You have to be kidding me. 1511 01:09:54,858 --> 01:09:56,992 Anyway, I don't write letters. 1512 01:09:57,026 --> 01:09:58,761 It's like a text, but without the phone. 1513 01:09:58,794 --> 01:10:00,962 You'll get the hang of it. 1514 01:10:00,995 --> 01:10:02,163 Hey, Frank, come on over here. 1515 01:10:02,196 --> 01:10:03,564 Yeah. 1516 01:10:03,597 --> 01:10:05,133 I want to introduce you to someone. 1517 01:10:05,166 --> 01:10:07,735 Tim, this is Frank. 1518 01:10:07,768 --> 01:10:09,136 Frank's gonna be your roommate. 1519 01:10:09,169 --> 01:10:10,870 Cool, hair, man. 1520 01:10:10,903 --> 01:10:14,506 What's ya hidin' under there? 1521 01:10:14,540 --> 01:10:16,674 Nah, I'm sorry. I'm just messin' with ya. 1522 01:10:16,708 --> 01:10:17,875 Here, come on. 1523 01:10:17,908 --> 01:10:19,109 So, how you doin'? 1524 01:10:19,143 --> 01:10:22,612 Uh, stupid question. First day sucks. 1525 01:10:22,646 --> 01:10:27,015 No, actually, the first week sucks. 1526 01:10:27,050 --> 01:10:28,617 Come to think of it-- 1527 01:10:28,651 --> 01:10:29,952 You love it here and you know it. 1528 01:10:29,985 --> 01:10:32,086 Okay, love might be a bit of a stretch. 1529 01:10:32,119 --> 01:10:34,221 But it's not so bad. You'll get used to it. 1530 01:10:34,255 --> 01:10:35,622 Come on, let me introduce you 1531 01:10:35,656 --> 01:10:36,757 to some of the guys. 1532 01:10:38,258 --> 01:10:39,625 Dexter, right? 1533 01:10:46,631 --> 01:10:48,132 [door bell rings] 1534 01:10:50,200 --> 01:10:52,635 Oh-ho, hello, Lisa.Oh my God. 1535 01:10:54,604 --> 01:10:55,905 So good to see you. 1536 01:10:55,938 --> 01:10:58,006 It is so good to see your friendly face. 1537 01:10:58,039 --> 01:11:01,176 Catherine, Catherine, come downstairs. 1538 01:11:01,209 --> 01:11:03,077 Lisa's here. 1539 01:11:03,110 --> 01:11:05,779 It is so good to see you. How long you staying? 1540 01:11:05,812 --> 01:11:07,281 As long as she needs me. 1541 01:11:07,314 --> 01:11:09,949 You're a good woman. She's lucky to have you. 1542 01:11:09,983 --> 01:11:11,584 How's she doin'? 1543 01:11:11,617 --> 01:11:14,219 It's been rough on everybody. 1544 01:11:14,252 --> 01:11:16,621 It's gonna really cheer her up to see you though. 1545 01:11:16,654 --> 01:11:19,223 She hasn't seen anyone in weeks. 1546 01:11:19,256 --> 01:11:21,692 Catherine, sweetie, come on down. 1547 01:11:21,725 --> 01:11:23,693 Lisa's here. 1548 01:11:23,726 --> 01:11:25,795 [Lisa] Hello, stranger. 1549 01:11:25,828 --> 01:11:28,730 Chai latte? 1550 01:11:28,763 --> 01:11:30,732 I'm gonna check my laundry. 1551 01:11:33,567 --> 01:11:34,735 Hi. 1552 01:11:36,603 --> 01:11:38,004 I love your mom. 1553 01:11:38,037 --> 01:11:39,906 [chuckles] I know, right? 1554 01:11:39,939 --> 01:11:41,907 She is amazing. 1555 01:11:41,940 --> 01:11:45,576 I just don't know how I'd cope without her. 1556 01:11:45,610 --> 01:11:48,713 So how you doin'? 1557 01:11:48,746 --> 01:11:51,648 I'm fine. 1558 01:11:51,681 --> 01:11:54,150 I'm okay.How's Tim? 1559 01:11:59,121 --> 01:12:01,589 He's good. 1560 01:12:01,623 --> 01:12:04,925 You know, it's beautiful up there. 1561 01:12:04,958 --> 01:12:09,795 Cath, you don't have to pretend with me. 1562 01:12:09,829 --> 01:12:12,231 I've never told anybody this before, 1563 01:12:17,201 --> 01:12:19,670 Tim has bipolar disorder. 1564 01:12:24,173 --> 01:12:27,809 We tried everything. 1565 01:12:27,843 --> 01:12:32,112 We did therapy, and doctors, and meds, and um... 1566 01:12:34,214 --> 01:12:35,715 He just... 1567 01:12:39,685 --> 01:12:42,620 Lisa, I just couldn't help him. 1568 01:12:45,022 --> 01:12:49,326 It takes so much courage to do what you did. 1569 01:12:51,962 --> 01:12:53,829 You know that, right? 1570 01:12:53,863 --> 01:12:56,065 [sobbing] I don't know. 1571 01:12:56,098 --> 01:12:57,699 When do you get to see him? 1572 01:12:57,732 --> 01:12:59,934 Every three or four weeks. 1573 01:13:01,969 --> 01:13:03,604 I miss him. 1574 01:13:04,772 --> 01:13:07,106 Yeah. 1575 01:13:07,139 --> 01:13:08,908 Cat, I really do... 1576 01:13:11,843 --> 01:13:14,212 My sister is bipolar. 1577 01:13:14,245 --> 01:13:16,747 She has been most of her life. 1578 01:13:16,781 --> 01:13:18,148 What? 1579 01:13:18,182 --> 01:13:20,884 Oh, my God. 1580 01:13:20,917 --> 01:13:25,654 Lisa, I mean, I didn't have any idea. 1581 01:13:25,688 --> 01:13:29,391 I never told anyone. 1582 01:13:29,424 --> 01:13:31,125 You know, I didn't even know you had a sister. 1583 01:13:31,158 --> 01:13:32,126 [laughs] 1584 01:13:32,159 --> 01:13:33,927 How is that possible? 1585 01:13:33,960 --> 01:13:37,330 I'm just full of surprises. 1586 01:13:37,363 --> 01:13:39,765 How did I not even know that. 1587 01:13:42,301 --> 01:13:46,737 I'm so here, you know that, right? 1588 01:13:46,770 --> 01:13:47,905 I know.Okay. 1589 01:13:47,938 --> 01:13:50,207 Now, are you ready for the tough love? 1590 01:13:50,240 --> 01:13:53,042 What? You look like shit. 1591 01:13:53,075 --> 01:13:54,410 [laughs] I love you. 1592 01:13:54,443 --> 01:13:56,111 Oh, my God. No offense. 1593 01:13:56,144 --> 01:13:58,079 Thanks for cheering me up. 1594 01:13:58,113 --> 01:14:00,047 But you gotta take better care of yourself. 1595 01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:01,849 I know. I'm just tired. 1596 01:14:01,882 --> 01:14:03,350 Okay?I know. I know. 1597 01:14:03,383 --> 01:14:05,184 I'm really--You can't take care of anyone, 1598 01:14:05,218 --> 01:14:07,020 unless you take care of yourself first. 1599 01:14:07,053 --> 01:14:08,187 It's like rule number one in parenting. 1600 01:14:08,221 --> 01:14:10,188 I know. 1601 01:14:10,222 --> 01:14:12,790 When was the last time you had a check up? 1602 01:14:15,726 --> 01:14:17,027 I don't know. 1603 01:14:17,060 --> 01:14:18,995 Catherine. 1604 01:14:19,029 --> 01:14:20,263 Okay. 1605 01:14:20,296 --> 01:14:21,831 Okay, okay, I promise. 1606 01:14:21,864 --> 01:14:24,099 Promise? I promise, I promise. 1607 01:14:24,133 --> 01:14:27,401 Just start running again, or come to yoga with me. 1608 01:14:27,435 --> 01:14:29,203 No, I'm not doin' yoga. 1609 01:14:29,237 --> 01:14:31,905 Come on. Me and yoga, right. 1610 01:14:31,939 --> 01:14:33,106 No, pass. 1611 01:14:33,140 --> 01:14:36,042 It'll help, okay. I promise it'll help. 1612 01:14:36,075 --> 01:14:37,910 Okay. 1613 01:14:37,944 --> 01:14:39,145 And you know... 1614 01:14:39,178 --> 01:14:42,680 there are some great support groups. 1615 01:14:42,713 --> 01:14:45,115 It might really help to be with other parents 1616 01:14:45,149 --> 01:14:48,218 who are goin' through the same thing. 1617 01:14:48,252 --> 01:14:50,253 You don't have to do this alone. 1618 01:14:50,286 --> 01:14:53,221 I didn't know. I just-- 1619 01:14:53,255 --> 01:14:57,024 I didn't know what to do. 1620 01:14:57,058 --> 01:14:58,760 [Tim] Hate to admit it, 1621 01:14:58,793 --> 01:15:00,227 but this place is actually kinda cool. 1622 01:15:00,261 --> 01:15:01,928 I know, right? 1623 01:15:04,897 --> 01:15:07,900 I've never been camping before. 1624 01:15:07,933 --> 01:15:09,234 Seriously? 1625 01:15:09,268 --> 01:15:11,335 Yeah, my parents always wanted me to go, 1626 01:15:11,369 --> 01:15:13,404 but, I don't know, I just never really wanted to. 1627 01:15:13,437 --> 01:15:16,273 Never really wanted to leave the house. 1628 01:15:16,306 --> 01:15:20,009 Well, that would make camping difficult. 1629 01:15:21,878 --> 01:15:25,947 Yeah, out here in the woods, it's kind of awesome. 1630 01:15:27,782 --> 01:15:29,249 This is where I decided I really needed 1631 01:15:29,283 --> 01:15:30,784 to get my shit together. 1632 01:15:30,817 --> 01:15:32,118 What do you mean? 1633 01:15:32,152 --> 01:15:33,286 You seem so together to me. 1634 01:15:33,319 --> 01:15:34,988 Oh, that's funny. 1635 01:15:35,021 --> 01:15:36,489 I was an even bigger mess than you when I got here. 1636 01:15:36,522 --> 01:15:38,223 Yeah, right. 1637 01:15:38,256 --> 01:15:40,992 No, seriously. I was hearing voices and shit. 1638 01:15:41,025 --> 01:15:42,694 Here, see this? 1639 01:15:44,928 --> 01:15:47,931 Yeah, I threw myself into a glass door. 1640 01:15:47,964 --> 01:15:49,432 Kinda freaked my parents out. 1641 01:15:49,465 --> 01:15:51,801 That's pretty intense. 1642 01:15:51,834 --> 01:15:55,504 Yeah, but I'm workin' hard 1643 01:15:55,537 --> 01:15:57,471 and I'm on the right meds now, 1644 01:15:57,505 --> 01:15:58,906 so... 1645 01:15:58,939 --> 01:16:01,341 I hate meds. Side effects suck. 1646 01:16:01,374 --> 01:16:02,342 The headaches are the worst. 1647 01:16:02,375 --> 01:16:03,810 How about nausea. 1648 01:16:03,843 --> 01:16:05,211 Dizziness. 1649 01:16:05,244 --> 01:16:06,178 Weight gain. 1650 01:16:06,212 --> 01:16:08,179 Weight loss. Can't sleep. 1651 01:16:08,213 --> 01:16:09,848 Can't wake up. 1652 01:16:09,881 --> 01:16:11,349 Constipation. 1653 01:16:11,382 --> 01:16:12,517 Diarrhea. 1654 01:16:12,550 --> 01:16:14,785 That might be the food here. 1655 01:16:20,256 --> 01:16:24,926 It's like, I just couldn't turn it off, you know? 1656 01:16:24,959 --> 01:16:27,194 I'd stare at the computer, 1657 01:16:27,228 --> 01:16:32,198 hoping for something good to happen. 1658 01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:35,801 It was like gaming was the only way 1659 01:16:35,835 --> 01:16:39,070 I could stay calm, you know? 1660 01:16:39,103 --> 01:16:41,172 Maybe it felt safer to be friends 1661 01:16:41,205 --> 01:16:44,207 with a computer screen? 1662 01:16:44,241 --> 01:16:47,344 Yeah, I guess. 1663 01:16:47,377 --> 01:16:50,179 A computer can't laugh at you. 1664 01:16:50,212 --> 01:16:53,514 Or leave you, you know? 1665 01:16:53,548 --> 01:16:57,084 Well, you've been here for five months now 1666 01:16:57,117 --> 01:16:59,553 without a computer. 1667 01:16:59,586 --> 01:17:01,154 How do you feel? 1668 01:17:01,187 --> 01:17:03,022 Like I miss my freakin' computer, man. 1669 01:17:03,056 --> 01:17:04,990 [all laugh] 1670 01:17:05,023 --> 01:17:07,525 No, seriously, I feel pretty good. 1671 01:17:10,194 --> 01:17:11,428 Makin' smores is kinda lame, 1672 01:17:11,462 --> 01:17:15,065 but you guys, you're all right. 1673 01:17:19,234 --> 01:17:20,970 It's cool hanging out with people, 1674 01:17:21,003 --> 01:17:23,972 instead of electronics. 1675 01:17:24,005 --> 01:17:26,974 You're pretty cool, Wyatt. 1676 01:17:27,007 --> 01:17:28,241 Thanks for sharing. 1677 01:17:28,275 --> 01:17:31,043 I know that wasn't easy. 1678 01:17:31,078 --> 01:17:34,346 Okay, everybody, tonight I'm really proud 1679 01:17:34,380 --> 01:17:37,883 to share that Frank has earned his independence. 1680 01:17:37,916 --> 01:17:40,585 Whoo!Yeah! 1681 01:17:40,618 --> 01:17:43,553 Frank, I'm just, I'm so proud of you, man. 1682 01:17:43,587 --> 01:17:47,123 You really worked hard at this. 1683 01:17:47,156 --> 01:17:49,258 You really deserve it. 1684 01:17:49,292 --> 01:17:51,593 Great job. 1685 01:17:51,626 --> 01:17:53,961 Why don't you stand and share a little bit 1686 01:17:53,995 --> 01:17:56,463 with everybody. 1687 01:17:56,497 --> 01:17:58,098 Don't need permission to piss anymore. 1688 01:17:58,131 --> 01:17:59,600 [laughs] 1689 01:17:59,633 --> 01:18:01,601 Congratulations, man, great job. 1690 01:18:01,634 --> 01:18:04,403 Thanks. 1691 01:18:04,436 --> 01:18:07,606 I'm gonna, I'm gonna read from this 1692 01:18:07,639 --> 01:18:11,575 because, you know, I'm not good at speeches, 1693 01:18:11,609 --> 01:18:17,213 and it's easier if it's written down. 1694 01:18:17,246 --> 01:18:19,281 Okay. 1695 01:18:19,315 --> 01:18:23,918 Being here has not been easy. 1696 01:18:23,951 --> 01:18:28,322 For a long time, my focus was trying to figure out 1697 01:18:28,355 --> 01:18:30,223 how to get the hell out of here. 1698 01:18:30,256 --> 01:18:33,126 [all laugh] 1699 01:18:33,159 --> 01:18:37,995 But then I realized that I needed to understand 1700 01:18:38,029 --> 01:18:40,264 how I got here in the first place. 1701 01:18:42,999 --> 01:18:46,636 I'm not proud of some of the stuff 1702 01:18:46,669 --> 01:18:49,504 I did in my past, 1703 01:18:49,538 --> 01:18:54,075 but I forgive myself because I know 1704 01:18:54,108 --> 01:18:58,611 what happened then isn't about who I am now, 1705 01:18:58,645 --> 01:19:03,082 or the person I want to be. 1706 01:19:03,115 --> 01:19:06,351 I'm learning to accept 1707 01:19:06,384 --> 01:19:11,388 and understand my shit 1708 01:19:11,421 --> 01:19:16,092 so I can manage it all a little bit better. 1709 01:19:16,125 --> 01:19:21,363 And I'm learning to accept other people as they are. 1710 01:19:21,396 --> 01:19:23,464 Because if I don't, 1711 01:19:23,497 --> 01:19:26,933 you guys are gonna drive me crazy. 1712 01:19:26,967 --> 01:19:31,271 Seriously though, I found a quote the other day 1713 01:19:31,304 --> 01:19:33,138 that I wanted to share. 1714 01:19:36,374 --> 01:19:42,379 "Life is short, live it. 1715 01:19:42,412 --> 01:19:47,249 Love is rare, grab it. 1716 01:19:47,283 --> 01:19:52,053 Anger is bad, dump it. 1717 01:19:52,087 --> 01:19:55,022 Fear is awful, face it. 1718 01:19:57,291 --> 01:20:01,127 Memories are sweet, cherish them." 1719 01:20:05,130 --> 01:20:06,631 [clapping] 1720 01:20:22,043 --> 01:20:23,477 Well, I'm glad you're all here. 1721 01:20:23,511 --> 01:20:25,378 I know this is a stressful time for all of you. 1722 01:20:27,147 --> 01:20:29,516 Kyle and Jessie, 1723 01:20:31,483 --> 01:20:34,552 do you understand what's happening with Tim? 1724 01:20:34,585 --> 01:20:36,487 Yeah. 1725 01:20:36,521 --> 01:20:37,988 [Henry] Kyle. 1726 01:20:38,022 --> 01:20:41,258 What? 1727 01:20:41,291 --> 01:20:42,959 Someone's talking to you.I get it. 1728 01:20:42,992 --> 01:20:44,227 Tim's bipolar. 1729 01:20:44,260 --> 01:20:45,994 No, actually, Tim's not bipolar. 1730 01:20:46,028 --> 01:20:48,263 Tim has bipolar disorder. 1731 01:20:49,664 --> 01:20:52,233 What difference does that make? 1732 01:20:52,266 --> 01:20:54,435 It's kind of important that you separate 1733 01:20:54,468 --> 01:20:55,969 the illness from Tim. 1734 01:20:56,002 --> 01:20:58,571 That's the difference. 1735 01:20:58,604 --> 01:20:59,572 You seem angry. 1736 01:21:02,107 --> 01:21:06,110 Well, I know it's not his fault. 1737 01:21:08,145 --> 01:21:10,580 That's true, but you can know that and still be angry. 1738 01:21:10,613 --> 01:21:12,582 I'm not angry. 1739 01:21:12,615 --> 01:21:14,650 Oh, honey, it's okay to be angry. 1740 01:21:14,684 --> 01:21:16,152 You can talk about it here. 1741 01:21:16,185 --> 01:21:17,386 Catherine, you can just let Jessie 1742 01:21:17,419 --> 01:21:18,453 talk for himself, just for today. 1743 01:21:18,486 --> 01:21:19,520 Thank you though. 1744 01:21:19,554 --> 01:21:23,557 I mean, I'm sad and stuff, 1745 01:21:23,590 --> 01:21:26,025 but... 1746 01:21:27,761 --> 01:21:31,196 but I'm kinda glad he's gone. 1747 01:21:31,229 --> 01:21:33,531 Well, see Tim took a lot of his anger out on Jessie. 1748 01:21:33,565 --> 01:21:37,234 So it was very, very hard on him. 1749 01:21:37,268 --> 01:21:38,402 Kyle, what's up over there. 1750 01:21:38,435 --> 01:21:41,371 [scoffs] It's just so typical. 1751 01:21:41,404 --> 01:21:42,605 Jessie only thinks about himself 1752 01:21:42,638 --> 01:21:43,773 and Mom always jumps in to defend him. 1753 01:21:43,806 --> 01:21:46,175 Kyle, that's inappropriate and unfair. 1754 01:21:46,208 --> 01:21:47,309 You know what's not fair? 1755 01:21:47,342 --> 01:21:48,710 What? 1756 01:21:48,743 --> 01:21:50,544 It's not fair that things used to be fine. 1757 01:21:50,578 --> 01:21:55,015 It was fun and happy, and he was never afraid. 1758 01:21:56,149 --> 01:21:58,484 And now, it sucks. 1759 01:22:04,089 --> 01:22:06,391 It sounds like you were really close. 1760 01:22:07,825 --> 01:22:10,694 We used to be. 1761 01:22:10,727 --> 01:22:12,095 Used to? 1762 01:22:19,300 --> 01:22:21,135 Do you feel... 1763 01:22:21,168 --> 01:22:23,670 do you feel like it's someone's fault? 1764 01:22:25,238 --> 01:22:26,539 My parents, I guess. 1765 01:22:26,572 --> 01:22:28,574 Mmm-hmm. 1766 01:22:28,608 --> 01:22:31,176 Why couldn't they control him? 1767 01:22:31,210 --> 01:22:34,012 Do you really think they could have done something? 1768 01:22:35,746 --> 01:22:37,314 No. 1769 01:22:40,517 --> 01:22:43,552 I mean how does this all make you feel? 1770 01:22:43,585 --> 01:22:47,088 How does it feel for you to hear Kyle? 1771 01:22:47,122 --> 01:22:51,558 I've tried to keep the family together 1772 01:22:51,591 --> 01:22:56,529 and I feel helpless sometimes. 1773 01:22:56,562 --> 01:23:00,132 Jessie, you said that you were relieved 1774 01:23:00,165 --> 01:23:01,799 that Tim was gone. 1775 01:23:01,833 --> 01:23:04,368 That's perfectly normal to be relieved that he's not there. 1776 01:23:04,401 --> 01:23:06,537 I mean, when you don't know what's gonna happen 1777 01:23:06,570 --> 01:23:10,306 in your house, that's gotta be upsetting. 1778 01:23:10,340 --> 01:23:12,608 It's tough walkin' on eggshells all the time, 1779 01:23:12,642 --> 01:23:13,709 huh, pal? 1780 01:23:16,845 --> 01:23:20,148 [sighs] Well, Tim is working on getting better. 1781 01:23:20,181 --> 01:23:23,083 He's going to come home and keep working. 1782 01:23:23,116 --> 01:23:27,486 And you all need to learn how to cope, really, 1783 01:23:27,519 --> 01:23:30,656 and to take care of yourselves, 1784 01:23:30,689 --> 01:23:32,090 because he can't do it alone. 1785 01:23:32,123 --> 01:23:34,459 You all can't do it alone. 1786 01:23:34,492 --> 01:23:36,660 Be there for each other and... 1787 01:23:36,693 --> 01:23:40,663 This is really a family effort, yeah. 1788 01:23:40,696 --> 01:23:42,231 There's hope. 1789 01:23:50,437 --> 01:23:51,605 [man] More fan mail, Frank. 1790 01:23:53,807 --> 01:23:56,309 Timothy Spencer. 1791 01:23:56,342 --> 01:23:58,843 ♪ 1792 01:24:16,557 --> 01:24:19,359 [Catherine] Dear Tim, How are you? 1793 01:24:19,393 --> 01:24:22,596 We want you to know how proud of you we are. 1794 01:24:22,629 --> 01:24:26,799 We just miss you terribly, and I can't wait to see you. 1795 01:24:26,832 --> 01:24:29,134 I can't believe that it's already been two weeks 1796 01:24:29,167 --> 01:24:31,203 since our last visit. 1797 01:24:32,537 --> 01:24:33,670 [Tim] Dear Mom and Dad, 1798 01:24:33,704 --> 01:24:35,872 I miss home so much, 1799 01:24:35,906 --> 01:24:39,509 and I'm working hard so I can come back soon. 1800 01:24:39,542 --> 01:24:40,743 Frank and I are becoming good friends. 1801 01:24:40,776 --> 01:24:42,344 He's pretty chill. 1802 01:24:42,377 --> 01:24:45,914 He gets it, if you know what I mean. 1803 01:24:45,947 --> 01:24:48,716 Are Jessie and Kyle coming to visit this time? 1804 01:24:48,749 --> 01:24:50,250 I've got some cool new card games 1805 01:24:50,283 --> 01:24:52,285 I want to teach them. 1806 01:24:52,319 --> 01:24:54,587 Tell them I miss them. 1807 01:24:54,621 --> 01:24:55,721 I love you. 1808 01:25:03,528 --> 01:25:05,429 I think a lot about home, 1809 01:25:05,462 --> 01:25:07,764 but it makes me really sad. 1810 01:25:07,797 --> 01:25:09,798 I'm so sorry for all the pain 1811 01:25:09,832 --> 01:25:12,367 I've put you guys through. 1812 01:25:12,400 --> 01:25:15,303 It's very difficult to talk about, 1813 01:25:15,337 --> 01:25:17,238 but I'm working on it. 1814 01:25:17,271 --> 01:25:20,307 Everyone here has a story, and nobody judges, 1815 01:25:20,341 --> 01:25:24,477 especially Rocket, but he's a dog. 1816 01:25:24,510 --> 01:25:26,711 Hey, can we get a dog when I come home? 1817 01:25:26,745 --> 01:25:29,748 I can't wait to see you next week. 1818 01:25:29,781 --> 01:25:30,882 I miss you. 1819 01:25:34,518 --> 01:25:36,253 [Henry] It's so peaceful here. 1820 01:25:36,286 --> 01:25:39,355 Do you guys get out here to hike a lot? 1821 01:25:39,388 --> 01:25:43,692 Sometimes, on weekends. 1822 01:25:43,725 --> 01:25:44,960 [Catherine] Tim, are you okay? 1823 01:25:44,993 --> 01:25:47,528 Can we go back to the hotel? 1824 01:25:47,562 --> 01:25:49,763 Tim, we're only halfway through our hike. 1825 01:25:49,796 --> 01:25:51,565 I'm really tired, can we go? 1826 01:25:51,598 --> 01:25:53,599 I think if you just keep walking, you know, 1827 01:25:53,632 --> 01:25:54,800 you'll probably feel better. 1828 01:25:54,833 --> 01:25:57,202 No, I can't do it. 1829 01:25:57,235 --> 01:25:58,736 Well, either way you look at it, 1830 01:25:58,770 --> 01:26:01,305 we've got a half an hour back or forward. 1831 01:26:01,338 --> 01:26:02,306 I don't care. I can't do it. 1832 01:26:02,339 --> 01:26:03,507 I'm done. 1833 01:26:03,540 --> 01:26:05,208 Okay, listen. Maybe we just need 1834 01:26:05,241 --> 01:26:06,877 a little break, okay? 1835 01:26:06,910 --> 01:26:09,378 Honey, listen, remember what James said, okay? 1836 01:26:09,411 --> 01:26:12,214 I don't give a crap about what James said. 1837 01:26:12,247 --> 01:26:13,948 You are my parents. 1838 01:26:13,982 --> 01:26:16,517 Why do you listen to everything that hesays? 1839 01:26:16,550 --> 01:26:18,451 That place sucks. 1840 01:26:18,486 --> 01:26:19,652 I don't belong there. 1841 01:26:19,686 --> 01:26:20,887 Shh, no Tim. 1842 01:26:20,920 --> 01:26:22,389 I need to come home. 1843 01:26:22,422 --> 01:26:24,723 Honey, call James. All right. 1844 01:26:24,756 --> 01:26:26,392 Honey, it's okay. 1845 01:26:26,425 --> 01:26:29,927 It's okay. 1846 01:26:29,960 --> 01:26:31,462 Look at me. Look at me. 1847 01:26:31,496 --> 01:26:33,530 It's okay. 1848 01:26:33,563 --> 01:26:35,599 I don't know what happened, James. 1849 01:26:35,632 --> 01:26:36,800 I mean, everything was fine 1850 01:26:36,833 --> 01:26:38,001 until it wasn't. 1851 01:26:38,034 --> 01:26:39,502 He was doing so well, 1852 01:26:39,535 --> 01:26:40,703 and we haven't had an episode like this 1853 01:26:40,736 --> 01:26:43,438 in quite some time. 1854 01:26:43,471 --> 01:26:45,339 This is actually progress, guys. 1855 01:26:45,372 --> 01:26:47,674 Sometimes it's one step forward, and five steps back. 1856 01:26:47,708 --> 01:26:49,610 If he doesn't let it out, we can't help him. 1857 01:26:49,643 --> 01:26:51,644 So it's actually progress that he has a meltdown 1858 01:26:51,677 --> 01:26:53,245 in the middle of the woods, 1859 01:26:53,278 --> 01:26:54,947 and we practically have to airlift him out. 1860 01:26:54,980 --> 01:26:57,816 Yes, yes. 1861 01:26:57,849 --> 01:27:00,251 Sometimes it is. 1862 01:27:00,284 --> 01:27:01,452 Trust me. 1863 01:27:01,485 --> 01:27:02,886 Now we've got something to work with. 1864 01:27:05,488 --> 01:27:06,723 Oh, my God, Lisa. 1865 01:27:06,756 --> 01:27:07,957 No, seriously, I didn't think 1866 01:27:07,990 --> 01:27:09,958 we were gonna get him back there. 1867 01:27:09,991 --> 01:27:11,660 I know. 1868 01:27:11,693 --> 01:27:13,628 Oh, I have another call coming in, can you hold on? 1869 01:27:13,661 --> 01:27:15,563 Okay, thanks. 1870 01:27:15,596 --> 01:27:16,931 Hello. 1871 01:27:16,964 --> 01:27:19,266 Yes, this is Catherine. 1872 01:27:19,299 --> 01:27:21,734 Uh-huh. 1873 01:27:21,767 --> 01:27:22,935 Okay. 1874 01:27:22,968 --> 01:27:24,537 Thursday works. 1875 01:27:24,570 --> 01:27:26,404 No problem. Thank you. 1876 01:27:26,438 --> 01:27:27,639 [clicks] 1877 01:27:27,672 --> 01:27:30,341 Hey, sorry about that. 1878 01:27:30,374 --> 01:27:32,443 No, it's just the doctor's office. 1879 01:27:32,476 --> 01:27:34,845 No, I feel good. 1880 01:27:34,878 --> 01:27:36,679 I do. In fact, I want to go on a run 1881 01:27:36,712 --> 01:27:39,548 before Jessie gets home from school. Okay? 1882 01:27:39,581 --> 01:27:40,915 All right, I'll talk to you later. 1883 01:27:40,949 --> 01:27:42,250 Bye. 1884 01:27:52,691 --> 01:27:57,062 Catherine, your husband couldn't make it? 1885 01:27:57,095 --> 01:27:59,497 Oh, no, it's not necessary. 1886 01:27:59,530 --> 01:28:02,666 You know, Dr. Lee, my mother has had so many biopsies. 1887 01:28:02,699 --> 01:28:04,501 It's always the same thing. 1888 01:28:04,534 --> 01:28:06,702 I guess I take after her. 1889 01:28:06,735 --> 01:28:08,537 We laugh that we're just lumpy. 1890 01:28:08,571 --> 01:28:10,772 [laughs] 1891 01:28:10,805 --> 01:28:12,073 Catherine, I'm afraid it's 1892 01:28:12,106 --> 01:28:15,009 a bit more complicated than that. 1893 01:28:15,042 --> 01:28:18,378 You have five small tumors in your left breast, 1894 01:28:18,411 --> 01:28:21,314 and the pathology report indicates that each tumor 1895 01:28:21,347 --> 01:28:24,449 tested positive for evasive cancer. 1896 01:28:24,483 --> 01:28:27,418 How serious is it? 1897 01:28:27,451 --> 01:28:31,789 I'm recommending you have both breasts removed. 1898 01:28:31,822 --> 01:28:35,725 If I have a mastectomy will it get rid of the cancer? 1899 01:28:35,758 --> 01:28:41,096 Well, we won't know, for sure, until after surgery. 1900 01:28:41,129 --> 01:28:44,832 Depends how far the cancer has spread. 1901 01:28:44,865 --> 01:28:48,401 Will I need chemotherapy? 1902 01:28:48,435 --> 01:28:51,370 It's hard to tell, but I think it's likely. 1903 01:28:54,806 --> 01:28:56,574 Catherine, I'm very sorry. 1904 01:28:59,876 --> 01:29:01,645 Mmm. 1905 01:29:01,678 --> 01:29:06,516 I can't remember having a meal this good. 1906 01:29:08,550 --> 01:29:10,852 What's this? There's like a tarragon in this dressing. 1907 01:29:10,885 --> 01:29:13,921 It's amazing. 1908 01:29:13,954 --> 01:29:15,989 Mmm. Mmm. 1909 01:29:19,826 --> 01:29:20,993 Honey. Mmm-hmm. 1910 01:29:21,027 --> 01:29:25,096 Um... I need to tell you something. 1911 01:29:26,497 --> 01:29:27,832 Mm-hmm. 1912 01:29:38,874 --> 01:29:42,043 Um... 1913 01:29:43,977 --> 01:29:46,512 I have breast cancer. 1914 01:29:48,848 --> 01:29:51,650 I'm so sorry. 1915 01:29:51,683 --> 01:29:52,917 No, no. Don't you apologize. 1916 01:29:52,951 --> 01:29:55,954 Honey, I feel so... No, no. 1917 01:29:55,987 --> 01:29:58,088 I feel so guilty.Stop it. Stop it. 1918 01:29:58,121 --> 01:29:59,590 Look at me. 1919 01:29:59,623 --> 01:30:01,691 We're gonna get through this together. 1920 01:30:01,724 --> 01:30:03,760 All right? 1921 01:30:03,793 --> 01:30:04,894 Okay. 1922 01:30:09,664 --> 01:30:10,898 We're gonna get through this. 1923 01:30:10,931 --> 01:30:12,399 Okay. 1924 01:30:14,134 --> 01:30:16,770 Your mom and I have something 1925 01:30:16,803 --> 01:30:18,037 that we've wanted to talk to you about, 1926 01:30:18,071 --> 01:30:22,507 and there's really no easy way to say this, 1927 01:30:22,540 --> 01:30:25,443 so I'm just gonna come right out and say it. 1928 01:30:25,477 --> 01:30:27,778 Your mom has cancer. 1929 01:30:27,811 --> 01:30:29,580 Breast cancer. 1930 01:30:29,613 --> 01:30:30,814 But it's okay, guys. 1931 01:30:30,847 --> 01:30:32,548 Okay, I've met with the top doctors 1932 01:30:32,582 --> 01:30:34,684 and I do need surgery... 1933 01:30:34,717 --> 01:30:36,685 Breast cancer? 1934 01:30:38,086 --> 01:30:39,588 Don't people die from that? 1935 01:30:39,621 --> 01:30:40,621 Not necessarily. 1936 01:30:40,654 --> 01:30:42,155 Not if you catch it in time. 1937 01:30:42,190 --> 01:30:43,857 And did we? 1938 01:30:43,891 --> 01:30:46,893 Well, we won't know until Mom has her surgery. 1939 01:30:46,926 --> 01:30:49,628 Will you need chemotherapy? 1940 01:30:51,029 --> 01:30:53,531 Probably, sweetie. 1941 01:30:53,564 --> 01:30:55,466 What's chemotherapy? 1942 01:30:55,500 --> 01:30:57,201 It's when the doctors give you medicine 1943 01:30:57,234 --> 01:31:00,570 to help the cancer go away. 1944 01:31:00,604 --> 01:31:04,006 But sometimes it can make you a little sick. 1945 01:31:04,039 --> 01:31:05,541 But that's okay. 1946 01:31:05,574 --> 01:31:07,209 Honey, it'll be okay, because then the cancer 1947 01:31:07,242 --> 01:31:08,676 will all be gone. 1948 01:31:08,710 --> 01:31:10,678 Will you lose your hair? 1949 01:31:10,712 --> 01:31:12,946 Your hair? 1950 01:31:14,080 --> 01:31:15,181 More than likely. 1951 01:31:17,183 --> 01:31:19,118 But I don't want you to lose your hair. 1952 01:31:19,151 --> 01:31:20,185 Oh, honey, come here. 1953 01:31:21,786 --> 01:31:23,622 It's only hair. 1954 01:31:23,655 --> 01:31:25,956 I promise you it will grow back. 1955 01:31:25,989 --> 01:31:30,127 The most important thing is that we all pitch in together as a family, 1956 01:31:30,160 --> 01:31:32,729 and help mom get through this, 1957 01:31:32,762 --> 01:31:35,631 so she can get better quickly. 1958 01:31:35,664 --> 01:31:36,765 Who's gonna tell Tim? 1959 01:31:41,869 --> 01:31:44,871 ♪ 1960 01:32:05,254 --> 01:32:08,923 Tim, can I talk to you in private for a few minutes? 1961 01:32:08,957 --> 01:32:11,759 Yeah, sure. 1962 01:32:11,792 --> 01:32:13,160 Be right back. 1963 01:32:15,227 --> 01:32:17,897 ♪ 1964 01:32:19,030 --> 01:32:21,733 [no audio] 1965 01:33:26,783 --> 01:33:28,118 No one's come and talked to us yet, 1966 01:33:28,151 --> 01:33:30,653 but I'm sure Mom's doing just fine. 1967 01:33:30,686 --> 01:33:33,988 They said it could take up to four or five hours. 1968 01:33:34,022 --> 01:33:36,224 Just take care of Jessie, would you, please? 1969 01:33:36,257 --> 01:33:39,627 And try not to worry. 1970 01:33:39,660 --> 01:33:41,761 Oh, Kyle, the doctor's coming. 1971 01:33:41,794 --> 01:33:43,730 Let me call you back in a little bit. 1972 01:33:43,763 --> 01:33:44,997 All right. 1973 01:33:45,031 --> 01:33:46,098 How is she? 1974 01:33:46,132 --> 01:33:47,999 She's in the recovery room. 1975 01:33:48,033 --> 01:33:49,167 How did the surgery go? 1976 01:33:49,200 --> 01:33:50,635 It went very well. 1977 01:33:50,668 --> 01:33:52,136 We removed the sentinel lymph nodes, 1978 01:33:52,169 --> 01:33:54,872 and from what we saw they were all clear. 1979 01:33:54,905 --> 01:33:56,673 So the cancer hasn't spread. 1980 01:33:56,706 --> 01:33:58,107 Well, we won't be 100% sure 1981 01:33:58,141 --> 01:34:00,176 until we get the pathology reports back. 1982 01:34:00,209 --> 01:34:01,677 And how long will that take? 1983 01:34:01,710 --> 01:34:03,678 Well, it usually takes about seven to ten days. 1984 01:34:03,711 --> 01:34:04,979 I will call you personally. 1985 01:34:05,012 --> 01:34:06,614 Okay. Thanks very much, doctor. 1986 01:34:06,648 --> 01:34:08,249 Thank you, doctor.It's my pleasure. 1987 01:34:08,282 --> 01:34:11,017 I can tell your wife is a very strong woman. 1988 01:34:11,051 --> 01:34:14,053 [sighs]And whatever happens, I'm sure she'll be okay. 1989 01:34:23,227 --> 01:34:26,596 ♪ 1990 01:34:58,854 --> 01:35:00,956 How you doing, nothin' there? 1991 01:35:02,157 --> 01:35:05,894 Ready to go again? 1992 01:35:05,927 --> 01:35:07,160 Nice. Good one. 1993 01:35:09,963 --> 01:35:13,700 Hi. The kids are really cute. 1994 01:35:13,733 --> 01:35:16,201 Appreciate that. 1995 01:35:16,235 --> 01:35:18,236 Is there any chance that you have a cell phone 1996 01:35:18,269 --> 01:35:19,637 I could borrow? 1997 01:35:19,670 --> 01:35:20,771 Mine died. 1998 01:35:20,805 --> 01:35:23,373 Yeah, here you go. 1999 01:35:23,407 --> 01:35:25,409 Thanks. 2000 01:35:25,442 --> 01:35:29,077 ♪ 2001 01:36:22,319 --> 01:36:24,988 Oh, ho, boy. 2002 01:36:25,021 --> 01:36:28,123 There is enough food here to last till Christmas. 2003 01:36:30,859 --> 01:36:32,393 Where was all of this when Tim was so ill 2004 01:36:32,426 --> 01:36:36,229 and couldn't leave the house for months. 2005 01:36:36,263 --> 01:36:39,166 Did your friends even know what was going on with Tim? 2006 01:36:39,199 --> 01:36:41,000 Not really, Mom. 2007 01:36:41,033 --> 01:36:43,669 I don't know, I guess I just felt like I couldn't tell 'em. 2008 01:36:48,506 --> 01:36:51,308 [phone rings] 2009 01:36:51,341 --> 01:36:54,811 [Kyle] Hello. 2010 01:36:54,844 --> 01:36:56,945 Oh, yeah, yeah, of course. Hold on. 2011 01:37:00,415 --> 01:37:04,852 Hey, Dr. Lee's office is calling. 2012 01:37:08,889 --> 01:37:11,457 Hello. 2013 01:37:11,491 --> 01:37:14,093 Hi, Dr. Lee. 2014 01:37:14,126 --> 01:37:16,127 Yes, I'm feeling pretty good. 2015 01:37:16,160 --> 01:37:18,162 Have the results come back yet? 2016 01:37:26,002 --> 01:37:27,869 That's what I wanted to hear. 2017 01:37:27,903 --> 01:37:30,271 Thank you. 2018 01:37:30,305 --> 01:37:33,808 Will I need to have any chemotherapy or radiation? 2019 01:37:36,876 --> 01:37:39,378 Okay, then that's what we'll do. 2020 01:37:40,913 --> 01:37:42,915 Thank you so much. 2021 01:37:42,948 --> 01:37:44,449 Okay. 2022 01:37:47,485 --> 01:37:49,820 They're up in the common room. 2023 01:37:49,853 --> 01:37:51,121 And just know I'm there. 2024 01:37:51,154 --> 01:37:53,323 You psyched for tonight? 2025 01:37:57,159 --> 01:37:58,960 The first day is always the hardest. 2026 01:38:02,030 --> 01:38:03,831 Yeah. 2027 01:38:03,864 --> 01:38:05,065 Let's go get Frank. 2028 01:38:13,972 --> 01:38:15,273 Tim! 2029 01:38:17,174 --> 01:38:18,408 [Henry] Hey, Buddy. 2030 01:38:18,442 --> 01:38:22,245 Honey, I'm so glad to see you. 2031 01:38:22,278 --> 01:38:25,281 Hey, buddy boy. 2032 01:38:25,314 --> 01:38:27,449 [Tim] So there's something I'd like to do this weekend. 2033 01:38:27,482 --> 01:38:29,917 Okay, what is it? 2034 01:38:29,951 --> 01:38:32,053 I-- I think it's time for a haircut. 2035 01:38:32,086 --> 01:38:33,487 Really?[Henry] Seriously? 2036 01:38:33,520 --> 01:38:35,789 Are you sure?Yeah. 2037 01:38:35,822 --> 01:38:36,923 [Tim] But don't tell anyone. I want it to be a surprise. 2038 01:38:36,957 --> 01:38:38,258 Thanks.[Henry] No worries. 2039 01:38:38,291 --> 01:38:39,859 Let's do it before you change your mind. 2040 01:38:39,892 --> 01:38:41,426 Oh, I' have one more surprise for you guys, 2041 01:38:41,460 --> 01:38:43,495 but I think that can wait until tonight. 2042 01:38:43,528 --> 01:38:47,765 [applause] 2043 01:38:53,470 --> 01:38:55,504 Man, they really put the talent in talent show. 2044 01:38:55,537 --> 01:38:56,938 Let's give another round of applause 2045 01:38:56,972 --> 01:38:58,373 for "Dogs Are Brown." 2046 01:38:58,406 --> 01:39:00,408 [applause] 2047 01:39:02,076 --> 01:39:04,211 So, it's been a while since our last act 2048 01:39:04,244 --> 01:39:06,380 has graced this stage. 2049 01:39:06,413 --> 01:39:08,814 However, he is now going to make a return. 2050 01:39:08,847 --> 01:39:11,183 Give it up for Timothy Spencer. 2051 01:39:11,216 --> 01:39:13,385 [applause]All right! 2052 01:39:18,622 --> 01:39:21,324 Tim, are you ready? 2053 01:39:25,060 --> 01:39:26,061 Yes, I am.